is it really necessary to have a child in our lives???

@swasti (1157)
India
January 3, 2007 6:43am CST
we see that mostly children leave us when they reach certain age and start with theri families.ultimately we are left again to be eitehr as single or with our life partners...and we have got to spend lot of money for them.instead if we dont have children and live only for ourselves....will it make a difference??
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@perugu (5281)
• India
3 Jan 07
hi,what will be the status of world after 100 years ,if all the people in the world think like that.Its our duty as per nature ,we have to grow children as a responsibility,don't expect anything from them...in recent days i observed in the society parents not making expendeture of total their earnings on children only,they also keeping some portion for their future purpose. so don't think against nature.all the best.
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@swasti (1157)
• India
3 Jan 07
well ya thats right..if evryobdy thinks like that ...then after many years there will be less peole on earth..
@ilvrshn (463)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Not necessarily. I think his is your prerogative if you don't desire to have offsprings! I don't think it will make a difference besides the your family bloodline will not continue.
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• India
3 Jan 07
In some cases it is seen that childrens leave their parents alone and leave parents after pertaining certain age if we think that and we dont plan for childrens there will be no future generation itself why you think negative if our parents had taught the same thing we had no chance of being on this earth
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• India
3 Jan 07
If U want to continue ur life children are a must. Some people will not get children at all. That's their fate. Some people will be having lot of children. But none of the children will not care about their parents. That's also their fate only. For me also no children.
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
I do not have a child, although married for 15 years now, we were not so blessed as others. Sometimes I thought having a child would be better but with how hard life is on earth now, It is better that I did not have a child. A child will surely make a big difference, because immagine you will for life have the responsibility over the child, worrying for his welfare even if he leaves you at a certain age, if he will have children, then you will have another life to get worried about.