When Should A Man Kiss A Girl?

Japan
January 4, 2007 5:56am CST
I admit it - I'm not very experienced when it comes to relationships and having a boyfriend! So I'd like to get a bit of help on what stage you think the man should kiss the girl? Do you think they should hold hands first, or perhaps have a hug first? Should it be the first time they go out or the fifth? Aaahh!!! It's soooo difficult!!! Help me! kumiko xo
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• Romania
4 Jan 07
anytime anywhere... :D
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• Hong Kong
4 Jan 07
When it is the moment.^^
• India
4 Jan 07
hi.. this is a good question.. a guy can kiss a girl when they the moment has been created, and as long as the girl is also willing to kiss i have dated many women and all i can say is that it just happens in the right moment... there is actually no right moment.. its about creating the moment.. i dont know if anyone has told you this before.. but this is what i think...
• Romania
4 Jan 07
Just let it happen it's more nice that way, don't try to plan it becaus that's just a little bit stupid. Have fun !!
@104090 (470)
• India
4 Jan 07
Only after the marriage is right. but i did it even very looooong before marriage So depends on the situation
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• Italy
4 Jan 07
You're saying a man shouldn't kiss his partner until they get married?!? Oh my God, no, that's just not right!
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Yeah that is nuts. How could you tell if you had any physical attraction if you didn't kiss first? That's where all the chemistry comes in. I was a good girl and waited til marriage on other things, but kissing is very important in judging a relationship :)
• United States
5 Jan 07
this kumiko person is bogus, he or she is just making up titilating stories and questions to get all you randy guys to post. look at the profile and topics... sorry guys, she is not real. hahaha!!
@Kaorin (756)
• Australia
4 Jan 07
I think it really depends on the situation. My boyfriend and I were seeing eachother for about 2 months before he kissed me. However, we weren't actually dating at the time. It is kind of confusing, but it depends more on the connection and the person, than a particular time in the relationship. Good luck!
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@rash219 (808)
• United States
4 Jan 07
well actually there is no such system like when u must kiss a girl...if both think they are made for each other they can kiss on the 1st date...but at times ppl kiss aftr a month of relationship and can even extend...so at the end the real answer to your question is....when you are confident that your partner is meant for you....thats when you kiss....
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• United States
4 Jan 07
Ya it need not be the first time.... However, the fifth time is too late.... I think man should kiss a girl when both are in a warm environment.... May be they can hug each other and then kiss......
• India
5 Jan 07
hey dear ............... when she/he is totaaly loving u and after kissing her u shuld not leave that girl then only.......... and 1 most important thing that she/he ready 4 it
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• Nigeria
4 Jan 07
When the girl is emotionally turned on at time she might be smiling,at this time kiss her and she won't say anything
• Romania
5 Jan 07
yes but not in every situation
@madgirl (210)
• India
15 Jan 07
Misinterpret a girl's smile and you're bound to get whacked.. at the very least.. with the nearest handy object.
@paulyn (81)
• Philippines
4 Jan 07
well in my experience, you really cant plan when you will be kissing a man or a girl.. it just happens.. thats what we call the MAGIC of LOVE ;)
• India
6 Jan 07
i obsalutely go withur statement !
• Brazil
4 Jan 07
I agree, I believe that the moment is special of each mas or girl, the two must choose momente.General rule for this moment does not exist.
@naiina (135)
• China
30 Jan 07
well he should hold her hands 1st n kiss them after give a hug n then kiss on cheeks n then on lips n not at 1st date but after some...
• Singapore
26 May 07
haha 1st date - see but no touch 2nd date - maybe hold hands 3rd date - friendly hug 4th date - maybe a peck if she is interested. 5th date - Twilight zone
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
12 Apr 07
What a weird question.... how is it possible to plan a meeting between two persons who are in love each other? Love is so natural.... you should just follow your heart, your feelings.... how is it possible to decide: step 1 look at his eyes, step 2 hug him, step 3 kiss him, if the step 2 doesn't work change boyfriend and nonsenses like this? I'm very shy, and I always get embarassed very easily, but I never plan anything, I take things as they come....
• Hong Kong
4 Feb 07
Depend on what situation is going on.
• South Korea
21 Apr 07
should kiss a boyfriend(or girlfriend) whenever you feel right. There's no such thing like right moment.
• Pakistan
22 Apr 07
It could be anytime.Firt try to hug each other,then looking at one others face,then come closer to each others face and then kissssssssssssss.
@akumei1269 (1749)
• India
18 Jan 07
When you feel the true need of it in the contiguity of a man you should invite him more intimacy and then if he responds positively you should give some hint of offering to kiss and he will do it . Summary a man should wait fot the offer fromthe girl . It may be the first or the fifth or the hundredth.
@ilyasjan (803)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
it depends on situations. but in every religious to do so will not allowed before marry.
@vkbllm (474)
• India
18 Jan 07
Hi Kumikosuzuki.... You look sweet...WILL YOU BE MY GIRL FRIEND??? just think for it, I am not in hurry.... Any ways for your question... Well I think, its only when you have proposed your girl! Also...It must be...Your girl must except ur proposal though... If all this went right than you can start kissing immideately!!!!!!
• India
18 Jan 07
sorry i have a girlfriend but i'm scared of being close to her because one day when i met her in the park, she holds my forehead and kiss me like anything infront of the public. so i feel ashame. one thing i got to say is, i can't tell her to have a sweet kiss but she really like to kiss on my clay cold lips.
@nanands (122)
• India
17 Jan 07
Most men would wait for some kind of a signal from their girl. History is full of men who have misread the so-called signal. Equal number of girls exist who feel they have given the signal but the "dumbo" just didn't catch on! But a good start is with holding hands. After that any time could be ok. But girls need to improve their signalling skills. 1. After holding of hands you could reduce the distance between you as you walk together. 2. You could put your head on his shoulder as you laugh at his joke. 3. You could hit him on his back if he makes some bawdy remark at a passing girl. 4. If you catch him looking over some of your feminine assets don't scowl. 5. If he makes remarks about some lips being more kissable than others humour him along to say more. I am sure others can contribute to this.....
• Pakistan
17 Jan 07
when ever a couple have kiss then they have to start from hands hands have emotions which carry you towards kiss only for couples