What turns a guy off ?

@malemi (21)
United States
January 4, 2007 3:13pm CST
so tell me guys what turns you off what will make you say no to being in a relationship with a woman ?
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14 responses
• India
12 Jan 07
before i steo into a relationship i try to make sure that the girl is trustworthy, honest and not too possessive or insecure .
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@rein2410 (809)
• Australia
12 Jan 07
If the woman is kinda overeacted to everything.. Or ... maybe because our way of thinking it too similar or too diffrent.
@123mosco (629)
• Nigeria
12 Jan 07
nothing can make her turn on me.
• Canada
12 Jan 07
The worst thing of all is if she cheated on her last boyfriend or was irresponsable and had a baby. Secondly is if she is very... very hairy... This scares me and makes me ask myself if she really is a woman(No offense) But i have never seen any women like that... Some badder stuff are like yellow/ugly teeth and hands that haven't been washed for months along with not taking a shower every now and then...
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
12 Jan 07
Well I cannot add to your list as I am a girl but after reading every discussion, I think I am enlightened about the matter what a guy dislikes.
• India
12 Jan 07
what really turns me off is when the woman tries to run my life and tells me what to do and what not to... i cant tolerate it if she compares me with some ex boyfriend.... she should not be the suspicious type who always thinks i am after another girl... i will definitely say no to being in a relationship if the girl expects me to change the way i live...
@rikpallav (1242)
• India
5 Jan 07
I would say for me it is the proudness and not being down to earth and understanding tuns me of to start off a relationship with a woman.
@doncris (637)
• Romania
5 Jan 07
things like being annoying, thick-headed, ugly sometimes,....we can also be very picky, you know...
• United States
5 Jan 07
A few things... 1) If she shows any signs of being a nag. I don't want naggers, and if there is ANY sign that she will start cajoling me about my friends, my taste in clothes or interior design, my taste in food, my taste in music, anything, she's out of here. 2) No feminists. I can do without having a relationship with a chick who has a power agenda, thanks much. 3) No short, masculine looking hair. Short hair in general,e ven if it looks feminine, can only really be pulled off by petite, slim girls. It turns me off in bigger girls completely - bigger or taller girls need to have long hair. 4) No sense of style, fashion or hygiene. I'm no metro but I care about what clothes I wear and how I look, and I do NOT want to be the 'girl' in the relationship. 5) Don't argue with me on everything. If I have a different viewpoint than you, accept it and don't try to change my mind. If you ask me what I think of a band you like and I don't like them, I'm gonna be straight with it, and if you start trying to argue with me or change my mind or act like I'm an idiot for not liking them, all you're going to do is piss me off and make me leave you. 6) Is her mom morbidly obese? If so, I'M OUT!!! In 20-30 years, the girl you are dating will more often than not look like her mom. If your girl is skinny and her mom is obese, chances are your girl ain't gonna be skinny forever, or anywhere close to it. 7) She has the cell phone turned on, or taken off of silent during a date. Don't leave your cell on unless you are expecting a call from the hospital about your mom who's undergoing heart surgery after a massive heart attack, and you are awaiting a call on whether she will live or die. 8) Hold conversation. In a lover, I also want a friend. If I can't hold a good conversation with you, and you bore the snot out of me, I want you out of my sight. Nothing annoys me more than social retards who think they're all that. 9) Hard-partying lifestyle. If you're going to bars a lot, getting wasted every weekend, going out for the sole purpose of flirting with guys, or you don't like to be seen as a "good girl" (yes, this happened with an ex of mine, who became a party ho after I dumped her), then you're a chick who I don't want to know. 10) She hates cooking and cleaning and has a bad or closedminded attitude towards a lot of things in general. The biggest thing this tells me is simply "lack of intelligence". I'd rather date a chick who's in the same area on the openminded an closedminded scale as I am - not too much more openminded, but not too much more closedminded either.
• India
5 Jan 07
well many a times over possesiveness shown by gals. reiteretion of the topic marriage and commitement make us loose interest
@abhiroop85 (2828)
• Scottsdale, Arizona
5 Jan 07
i hate lies.everything else is ok but no dishonesty.
@tibbler (229)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I had a guy get scared off by me telling him I loved him. He just up & stoped talking to me for the longest time. Now he won't even come hang out with me because hes scared I'll do it again.
@undooit (55)
• Romania
4 Jan 07
Hmmm... cheating and... more cheating... :) I wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman that can't respect this...
• United States
4 Jan 07
Her admitting to past cheating or an irresponsible style of living is a huge turnoff for me. I am all about forgiving, but trusting again and again when you know the past can be really tough to get past at first. By irresponsible living, I mean going to bars and drinking many nights a week or shunning work requirements to party or whatnot.