So what is that your Beloved doesnt understand??

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@20021985 (109)
India
January 4, 2007 10:31pm CST
So what is that your Beloved doesnt Understand?? Something that you have been trying to make Him/Her understand?? And what do you think is the reason they not understanding things....May be you will find a solution here. Try it out
2 responses
@misskatonic (3730)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Well, the relationship has ended, but my last girlfriend just couldn't understand that my life couldn't revolve around her. She couldn't get that I needed my space, and I needed time away from her and with my friends, and that I couldn't spend 24 hours of the day with her. She always took it personally, like it was some insult to her. That's just who I am, I need space. I never did get her to understand, and I had to break it off with her.
@20021985 (109)
• India
5 Jan 07
Aaw am so sorry for you....but it happens in all relationships....i feel she was posessive abt you and it does happen with ppl who find everything in you. They feel that u shd be there whenever they r down in soul. But they only after talking. You just can expect things to get solved on their own. No offences but i feel you should have tried to explain things to her in her own way by asking her to be there everytime....when u know it wdnt have been possible for her...perhaps thn she wd have understood wht is tht she should not do. I dont know what was your case perhaps before knowing that i shd not have made a comment. Its just my personal opinion plz dont take it otherwise
• United States
5 Jan 07
I tried for a year to explain it to her. We tried counseling and everything. I gave it all I could, but she kept saying she understood and then turning around and flying into a rage or a sulk whenever I wanted to go out without her or just go take a nap by myself. I couldn't take it anymore and I'd done everything I possibly could.
@20021985 (109)
• India
5 Jan 07
Yep i understand...but that doesnt stop you from falling in love again...so go grab it...gud luck....wish u great life ahead
• India
5 Jan 07
I love him to the core .....and i know he is the only one for whom i can do anythng ....yes i mean it... He loves me too.... but is not ready to speak to his parents now , for a commitment.........not ready yet.. but if he loves me then ???? I was there with him in his kith and kin but what has hapnd now???? mine is the marriageable age....and parents hav already started searching a groom for me........ i just can't take this...hw much should i wait??? help me god !!!! i need him in my life!!!!!
@20021985 (109)
• India
5 Jan 07
yep i can understand...tht must be hurting u bad...but the thing is if he loves u the way u do perhaps he shd understand wht u feeling and if he cannot talk to you or his parents then atleast he shd be talking to you and explaining you the issue as to what is making him not to talk to your or his parents. You guys need to sit and talk and talk your heart out. That would really help u guys and if u dont talk, it wd take this relationshipto nowhere. Gud Luck to u and the lucky chap who doesnt realize he is in love with someone who thinks abt him so much.... Adios