Is Wife Swapping and Swinging OK?

India
September 30, 2006 5:40am CST
Alot of media recently found a growing trend amoung happily married couple to swap their spouses for the shake of pleasure,enjoyment and fun of it.what do you think about this?
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17 responses
• United States
7 Nov 06
Not for me! I think what is the point of getting married if that is what you are going to do, why not just stay in the relationship but not get married? Marriage to me is a promise you make to each other & to god.
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@Myrrdin (3601)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
So the only reason to get married is to make sure the other person isn't sleeping with anyone else?
@Myrrdin (3601)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
I have first hand experience with this. I enjoyed it a lot, but I don't think I'd do it again, it ended bad. To those of you who think that it is just about getting to screw around on your spouse, perhaps it is for some, but I really enjoyed seeing my wife receiving pleasure. It can be dangerous for a relationship, alot of trust must be shared, and rules must be set and followed by both husband and wife.
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• Hong Kong
14 Dec 06
I wouldn't do it,but if it makes my future husband happy,then I might.I mean sometimes we have to do things we don't like to keep others happy.
@firelight (1859)
• Australia
13 Nov 06
It's not something I'd personally try, and I really can't understand why people would want to do it BUT so long as all are consenting adults, that is their business and I have no problem with it, so long as they don't try and involve me lol Some relationships are more open to these sort of things than others.
• India
7 Nov 06
I would totally oppose this.. and would advice all of them to oppose it..
• United States
7 Nov 06
personally I wont do it but its each to there own.. if someone wants to do it and they choose to do it on thier own and thier partner agrees with it who are we to judge them.
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@carlennj (593)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I agree this is not for me. If you have to look outside your marriage for satisfation, you need to examine your relationship.
@DRoddy77 (1780)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I will never understand how people can do it unless they really dont love their spouse. I mean, i would go crazy if i saw my husband with another girl and vice versa! I wouldnt even enjoy it! I dont know how anyone can watch their spouse screw someone else and be ok with it!!
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@krishna183 (2286)
• India
10 Oct 06
no it isnt .. its disgusting anf makes no sense in ANY WAY
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• United States
27 Oct 06
If you're seeking the general societal opinion of whether or not swinnging is morally acceptable, you'll quickly find that it is not. In fact, most people might find swinging to be morally detestable. According to the bible, such activity would qualify as adultery. However, if you want my own personal opinion, I think it's hot..
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
7 Nov 06
hot is a reason to do things? even when society disagrees.
@Myrrdin (3601)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
Why does societies opinion matter in MY bedroom, isn't the people in my bedroom the only peoples opinion that matters?
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@gloria777 (1678)
• India
27 Jan 07
I can't agree with that Idea. Its really barbarism.
• India
29 Jan 07
why barbarism this happens consensually among all involved there is no forced member everyone is agrreed.. i think
@terriann (4458)
• United States
27 Oct 06
It's not for me.
• India
29 Jan 07
it is fairly common in west there are lots of clubs and resorts that offer such services even internet has listing of these clubs and resorts there are lots of people who are on the look out as evident from dating sites on internet
• Australia
29 Jan 07
I don't think so. If you want to sleep around which is what you say however you dress it up, then you shouldn't get married.
• United States
9 Jan 07
I think that if you are that desperate to want your spouse to sleep with someone else just so you can, then why did you get married? Those people who do this should have just stayed single.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think that some people think this is the ultimate trust and that it will strengthen there relationship. I think it makes the relationship less than a warm loving family one. Adultery and Fornication are Sins for christians and will destroy family as they have throughout history
@MaddisMom (144)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I think it's gross. I married one man for a reason..I don't have the urge to sleep with anyone else. And I know for a fact he would ever want to share me. What man would? Gross!
@vipul20044 (5800)
• India
27 Oct 06
That is pretty cheap! Atleast for me it is