Do you have a secret that is so bad you will take it to the grave with you?

frown - serious question
@34momma (13895)
United States
January 5, 2007 4:21pm CST
If you choose to share it, who would that one person be that would not judge you?
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@Darkwing (21588)
5 Jan 07
I carried a secret around with me for over forty years, and eventually, I confided in my younger sister. I knew she would listen, wouldn't judge and would hold my secret safe. I felt a lot better to have somebody to share this secret, somebody that I could trust. I would also confide in my man and my best Sis, in America. I know a secret would be safe with all these people. No need to carry it to the grave with you.
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
6 Jan 07
that is wonderful you have people in your life you can count on. i too am blessed with those kinds of people in my life
@Darkwing (21588)
6 Jan 07
Not only can I count on them, they know they can count on me. That's why I trust them.
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
8 Jan 07
awsome
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
hi there.. yes indeed i still got some secrets... sorry but i can't share it to you, or everyone out there^_^ i guess it would still take sometime before i can finally bring it out even to my husband.... well you know the saying.. WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW WON'T HURT YOU... well that's one of my motto's for now wahhaa.. well of course God knows me deep down inside and he know's my heart.. thanks ^_^
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
18 Jan 07
that is so true, there really are no secrets when the Lord knows your true heart. thanks
@Kaldonya (278)
• United States
25 Jan 07
That's right! God knows your heart, and there are no secrets from Him! (Makes you wonder then why some people live as if they can even keep things from God...)
@uzaird (38)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
yes there r things i have done in the past but i cant tell dem i apologized to my lord ALLAH and i know he will forgive me.
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
24 Jan 07
The Lord forgives all.
• India
19 Jan 07
I don't think I have any such secret which I would like to carry with me to grave. But as life is long and I am still too young to comment on such stuff may be someday I have a secret which I would not want to disclose to anyone.
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
24 Jan 07
That is the best way to keep it secret!
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
i'd prefer my dear cousin, she's my bestfriend. when i talk to her she'd listen to me without giving any comment. i've been sharing to her a lot of my secrets. i've trusted her since we were kids.
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
19 Jan 07
that is so great. people don't really understand the power of just listening. everyone has something to say, but the art of just being able to listen to someone is a lost art. tell your cousin i said great job
@nancygibson (3737)
• France
6 Jan 07
No, I tell my husband everything. I used to get very depressed but once I started telling him every last detail of my life so that he could undertstand why I got that way things got a lot better and I found I could cope much more easily
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
8 Jan 07
it is good to have that one person you can unload to.
• United States
6 Jan 07
If you do have a dark secret...than keep it secret...I don't believe their are many people that can refrain from 'just telling one other person'. And since you can never really know just how reliable another person is or just how ironclad that individuals resolve is...don't share...SS
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
8 Jan 07
my grandmother use to say, if you want something kept secret, then don't tell anyone! i think she had it right
• United States
6 Jan 07
I don't have an secrets that I keep from everyone - by boyfriend and my best friends know just about everything there is to know about me. Do you have a secret you are going to take to your grave with you??
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
6 Jan 07
no i don't. there are things that happen to me that i didn't want to tell but i found that tell helped me a lot
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 07
No I haven't not that I am aware of lol I have not done anything in my Life that is so bad that I can't word it
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
6 Jan 07
good for you
@cuterose (1698)
• India
5 Jan 07
yes i have. :( i would never want to discuss it with anyone. u're posting nice topics momma. good.
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
6 Jan 07
thanks, i want to get people thinking you know
5 Jan 07
no, i did have i carried this secret around with me for a long time since my child hood but i eventually told my parents last year, i think that you have something really series you should tell someone about it because if you dont it can chew away at you, in my case i was always carefull and scared that my parents would find out before i would have got the chance to tell them
@34momma (13895)
• United States
6 Jan 07
good to know that you could come to your parents and be honest
• United States
5 Jan 07
No at least one person somewhere or another knows all my secrets. My hubby knows them all. I don't believe in keeping anything from him
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@34momma (13895)
• United States
6 Jan 07
good girl, truth will set you free
@disvachic (10121)
• United States
19 Jan 07
I have a secret but its bad, but not that bad.I have shared this secret with anyone.I personally think its confidential and dont want anyone to know about it.
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@abhiquest (580)
• India
19 Jan 07
None. I feel there shouldn't be one. I believe its a sign of self confidence and confidence in others. You live a much stress free life this way and persons around you believe every word of what you say. You can never be your own self with these secrets around you and they seem to take a lot of your attention and focus away from task at hand. Have someone around as an alterego, someone with whom you can share your thoughts and seek guidance. At times you are not the best person around to take decisions concerning your life.
@agusfebi (813)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 07
Sorry, for my life, I did not have the secret that was so bad to go to the grave. Because for me, went to the grave was a very noble matter, besides this, we were obligatory also to go to the grave.
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@superbren (856)
23 Jan 07
i know a secret . it is someone elses secret but it affects me. i need to get help with it but i dont trust anyone enough to tell them .i am putting off getting the advice but the secret is not going away.i have considered going to a counsellor but can they tell anyone.
@34momma (13895)
• United States
23 Jan 07
i am so sorry that the secrets of another have made you feel so stress. i am not sure what the secret is, but if you need help with it you should get that help
@Kaldonya (278)
• United States
25 Jan 07
You could talk to a pastor at your church.
@Kaldonya (278)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I suppose once you share it, then it's no longer a secret. I did/do have something that I would've taken to the grave with me, but because it directly involves another individual, then I needed to tell someone. So my husband, sister and best friend knows. Other than that, noone will ever find out.
@34momma (13895)
• United States
25 Jan 07
you are so right once you tell it is no longer a secret. and my grandma always said, if you want something want something kept secret then keep it to yourself. yet there are things that we must share,get off our chest.
• Canada
6 Jan 07
No secrets.
@34momma (13895)
• United States
6 Jan 07
yeah right
@KANSAS13 (38)
• United States
23 Jan 07
GOD!!!!
@tessie (50)
• Nigeria
19 Jan 07
I rather be judge than take a bad secret to my grave. I will expose it anytime as far as the secret is bad.