What is the worse thing a person can say or do...

January 6, 2007 8:56am CST
...to ruin your mood? Me, I think it’s to misunderstand me and refuse to hear me out. I hate it when due to their own fault, they misinterpret something I have said and then they run amuck with it and will not let me clarify myself or they keep going back to it over and over again. People like this just need to be slapped. Because I can not slap them, I just stay in a bad mood all darn day. LOL So what about you, what can someone do to put you in a bad mood? WARNING !!!BTW I read and rate each post but may not be able to respond to all. Also don’t leave a “yes” or “no” answer (that is against Mylot rules), I will give a “-“ and report you, as I ask ALL to do so when seeing a post like that. Thanks to all in advance!!!!
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36 responses
• United States
6 Jan 07
When people whine about something that is their own fault and blame everyone but themselves for the problem. They do not want to fix what is wrong and make excuses or continue to place blame on others.
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6 Jan 07
I think people like this are just looking for attention. Self made victims, they kill me.
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• United States
7 Jan 07
That is good.
• United States
7 Jan 07
I like the way you said it.
• United States
6 Jan 07
You have perfectly described a person who can really tick me off and usually they are too dumb to know what I'm talking about. Then yesterday I was in my "off the Internet" time I saw a new neighbor kick a stray cat. That put me in a lousy mood all day. I went out (hope she saw me) tried to feed the poor little thing and tell her about some rotten people but she was too scared to come close.
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6 Jan 07
It's a shame you couldn't just go kick the nieghbor. I see people like this all the time. It can really get to a person. Thanks for sharing that.
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@maapav (729)
• India
7 Jan 07
My mood ruins also due to my husband.He is not so caring and loving.He doesnot even share his feelings not try to understand mine.This is when My mood gets ruin.And also sometimes due to misunderstanding.I actually speak for the good of that person but he won't be able to understand that. My mood also ruins when my daughter doesnot listen to me and make our room a mess.By seeing that room my mood always spoils.
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• India
7 Jan 07
I think the worst thing a man can do is to leave his beloved girfriend forever and break marriage. The girl is completely mentally destroyed by the man's decision. These men don't think what will happen to this poor lady. Breaking heart is easier but recoinciling is very tough indeed.
• United States
7 Jan 07
i hate those people who do not allow me to do my work and while i am in the midst of my work they keep disturbing me. just a few days back i was working on a tough assignment and one guy came up and asked questions which i thought were none of his business. this is the most disgusting thing that one could ever experience and personally this is the most annoying thing for me.
@gaubs99 (15)
• India
7 Jan 07
if any 1 insulte me that turns off my mood
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@ahmar2 (682)
• Pakistan
7 Jan 07
THere is not such a single thing for me my mood can be ruined by a number of things.
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@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
7 Jan 07
'I hate you' dats the only thing i get mad at! any one say dat and i am messed! i just hate the line!
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@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
7 Jan 07
To be misunderstood and complained to about it, on top of it can indeed really change your mood alright! What someone can do to put me in a bad mood is unload on me with a ton of negative crap everytime they open their mouth! Instead of just keeping the average conversation light, positive and encouraging, uplifting etc. The worst part is that this person is a family member and I am really not sure how to try and deal with it next as I have tried several drastic measures but it just goes on and on and really rude things are said. Usually about other family members. This just happened to me last thing this evening. Good Grief. Thanks to MyLot I can unwind and take my thoughts elsewhere. Thanks for the opportunity to express myself on this topic.
@Jamian (2603)
• Philippines
7 Jan 07
For me, the worst thing that a person can say to me is that "I dont want to see you anymore!" I really hate that word. But thanks, no one said that to me before.
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• India
7 Jan 07
On the contrary I think the worst thing that a person can say is say nothing, and the worst thing that a person can do is do nothing. It is very easy to do nothing but difficult to do the right thing. People think doing nothing is being neutral and it keeps them away from troubles. But I think that doing nothing is like giving a silent approval, and that makes a lot of difference.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
7 Jan 07
I am annoyed when people do try to take advantage of me. That really sets me in a bad mood.
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@maru_047in (1007)
• India
7 Jan 07
worse thing to say is "I Love You" to a girl cause they have to say it to us not v to them. Worse thing to do is cheat Innocents.
@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
7 Jan 07
I think the worst thing someone can do is lie to me. I just dont want to hear what they have to say if they cant tell the truth. It really gets on my nerves because they feel that they are insulting your intelligence.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
7 Jan 07
If in response of my hello a person just ignores me that makes my mood spoiled. Harsh words if spoken to me I do not like.
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@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
7 Jan 07
I understand what you are talking about and it's one of the worst things that can happen to me too and it does happen sometimes :( I just hate it when people get a wrong picture about me and i can't change it, not that I'm perfect but if someone can't understand or don't want to understand i really can't stand the stupidity and it does ruin my day it even tick of my insomnia and I stay up all night but I guess there's nothing we can do about it, we just have to forget it and move on.
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@catchre (407)
• Philippines
7 Jan 07
When people say or think that I am still young to know how the world works, and that they can force me to back down an argument by bullying me. People tend to abuse my kindness and most of the time, they think that they can manipulate me because of my age. What they don't know is I know what they're thinking, their motives, and their reasons for not treating me right.
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• United States
7 Jan 07
i also hate it when someone misunderstands me and wont listen to what i really said. also when you have to repeat yourself 20 times over cause the person either wasnt paying attention or ignoring you all together. i also hate it when people jump to conclusions about things.that really drives me nuts.
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@Lady_Vincy (1538)
• United States
7 Jan 07
The worse that that a person can do do change my mood is just talk way to much. People should only talk when they have something to say, not because they just want to talk.
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• United States
7 Jan 07
I hate when I tell my bf something and he gives me a reason why I am wrong and what is right according to him. That really gets me in a bad mood then I begin to argue with him. Something it's better to just leave it alone and keep his thoughts and comments to himself.
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