please need help..

Philippines
January 7, 2007 3:17am CST
i have a 4 year old boy and living with my bf...im jobless but my bf wants another baby girl...but for me i dont think im ready for another one..what should i do???
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6 responses
@goldjay (465)
• United States
9 Feb 07
Personally, I'd want commitment from the boyfriend before becoming pregnant with another baby. If you nor he are ready for marriage then you probably aren't ready for another baby either. It's a hard decision but i fyou are young and have time to wait and see how things go, then I think I'd advise to wait. Just my opinion.
• United States
9 Jan 07
I think you should be honest with him and talk about your concerns. He should understand. And maybe you two can work o those concerns so you can have a baby together.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
7 Jan 07
Just give in yea , you have no choiche lol
• Singapore
7 Jan 07
i think it's best for you to tell him about your feeling...maybe you just feel that you are not financially stable to have another child? share with him your feeling and tell him you are not ready yet. it's better than to do it as he wants it and regretful over the matter.
@guesswhomsa (1168)
• India
7 Jan 07
i think it would be better if you marry him first but the final decision will be on you
• United States
7 Jan 07
I always believe that we should be the judge of if we want to have another baby or a baby at all for that matter. If you are not ready for a baby than you have anwered your own question. You should just tell your boyfriend that the time is not right. There is 10 years between my oldest and my second child. In many ways this was easier for me. There are almost 5 years between my second and third child. Do what you think is best and only when you are ready should you have another one.