Having relationships with older partners..

ashton and demi - older demi moore got married to a young ashton kutcher.
@raijin (10345)
Philippines
January 7, 2007 11:31pm CST
What's gone to some good-looking guys going after some rich or not, older women? And vice versa.. Is it for money's sake, for stability or true love? Your feelings abou this..
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OhMyDayz
@OhMyDayz (157)
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8 Jan 07
When I was 15 I went out with a 19 year old. At the time I didn't just see him as having money but as being more mature then boys my age. However, as time went on I did miss having boyfriends my own age as it got rather boring because the youngest out of all his mates. Anyway cutting it short I think this relationship was mostly based on money and sercurity from an older boy because they can give you much more than a boy my own age can. However, now I am going out with a boy my own age. His got hardly no money but I have a good time with him and he makes me laugh, which in the end I think counts.
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raijin
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
Yes! I think relationships should be based on love and not stability. And, I was pointing out on to those who have relationships with almost twice their age. Anyways, thank you for the response..
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Ohara_1983
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
23 Jan 07
I guess true love for me. I'm not looking his stability in life. I have a bf before when i was in manila, he and I are 10yrs in gap. He is half chinoy, good looking and have an stable job but i broke him coz I feel that I'm not comfortable to him. He is a very sweet, kind but they have something that i want to find at him but i never saw it. That's why i decide to broke him:)
raijin
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I see, I understand your sentiments. I hope you already moved on after that relationship;)
freesoul
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
8 Jan 07
In most cases it is for the money and security but it's a common thing that women gets attached to a man for his "father figure" or a man wanting someone like a mother, it's not psychotically illness, just different needs for different people depending on their life's experiences.
raijin
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
People nowadays are worrying about their future, and their social needs. They sometimes ignore consequences of their actions.
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abi1005
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
hi there..i just couldn't get off my eyes to your topic. anyways, i am having a 2-yr relationship with a man who is 18 years older than me. i am 24 and he is 42 this year. from the start of our realtionship, i know already that i am not going to please everybody. and i just can't control everybody's mind. but i am in this relationship not because of money nor i am just looking for a father figure. i am in this relationship because i love him and he loves me too. we've been through a lot of trials already but still here we are, fighting for our love.
abi1005
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
hi there..i just couldn't get off my eyes to your topic. anyways, i am having a 2-yr relationship with a man who is 18 years older than me. i am 24 and he is 42 this year. from the start of our realtionship, i know already that i am not going to please everybody. and i just can't control everybody's mind. but i am in this relationship not because of money nor i am just looking for a father figure. i am in this relationship because i love him and he loves me too. we've been through a lot of trials already but still here we are, fighting for our love.
raijin
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
Thanks for sharing your views, and your experience too!;) I wish you two to have a happy relationship and for it to last. This just proves that, love conquers all..