marriage?

@shemb1 (465)
Sri Lanka
January 8, 2007 8:30am CST
What do you think about the marrigaes? is it good thing or bad thing? I asked this I have heard lots of bad things and good things about this from my friend. Need your advices my friend... What ever I believe marriage is good thing when we meet right person for life to with ..
4 responses
@fady83 (617)
• Egypt
22 Jan 07
i think if we did not got bad thing in our life then we will not feel about good things. so i think it is life one day bad and others good
@shemb1 (465)
• Sri Lanka
24 Jan 07
friend I thank you for the your comment, hope you have great life in the future. thank you
@howiedy (236)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
Marriage is a good thing provided the persons involved are emotionally, mentally, financially prepared to start a family. It is not an easy thing to decide on. Time should also be taken into consideration. It should be bound by love and understanding. Otherwise, the essence of marriage becomes futile.
@shemb1 (465)
• Sri Lanka
24 Jan 07
you are right marriage is not easiest thing in the world because it has lots of resposible that never ends. but if someone really like this they can carry on this in special and honest way.
• India
19 Jan 07
Marriage is good thing. I any one get married means the person is having another person for him/her and he/she belongs to someone. And we live in a society. The society provides to humanbeing to fulfil their natural needs through a marriage. And if they both have children then it become a family. That the race going on.
@shemb1 (465)
• Sri Lanka
22 Jan 07
that right I like your view of you expressed and think everybody have right person for living with them selves. Because marriage will be heaven if we get right person. Otherwise it ll be hell. these are some of friends ideas and some times i think the same also.
• United Arab Emirates
8 Jan 07
kindly read this artical it will be helpfull... Marriages are made in Heaven "Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: finding the right person and being the right person" quote. Do we really know the actual definition of a successful marriage? If not than lets look for it and see what conclusion we can draw. We often say that someone somewhere is made for you and the day you come across that person you feel that that he or she is the one you have been waiting for. But later we see that due to lack of understanding and mental compatibility they move apart. So how can we say that they were the perfect match since they didn't gave any effort to understand each other. So it's important you know your partner. There are people who get physically attracted and fall for each other and eventually end up getting married. But later on when they see their wavelength not matching they easily get separated without a second thought. In today's generation we see these incidents more compare to earlier generation. And this is more due to the changing social scenario. With so many things to divert your attention you really don't know what to do. Marriage is not just coming together of two individuals. There is much more to it. To sustain a marriage it is important that there is effort from both sides than only a marriage can carry on. A successful marriage is like a good recipe whose main ingredients are love, commitment, understanding, concern and togetherness. If you can include these aspects in your married life you can find happiness in your marriage. Andre Maurois once aptly said, "A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short." Which is so true. When we talk about mental compatibility between husband and wife we have seen that not only incase of arrange marriage this problem exist where both of them were unknown to each other before marriage but even after many years of courtship in love marriages this problem exist because when we meet before marriage we are at our best to impress the other person. And we start accepting each other the way we like to see each other. But gradually after marriage when we slip into our natural self that time we have to accept each other as we are. And in most of the cases the real self is not what we wanted to see and then begins the contradiction with the person whom we have loved and with whom I have to spend my life. So it's important that when you love a person love him or her the way he or she is and not the way you want him or her to be. Than only you can be happy. A happy married life calls for constant commitment and concern for each other. There are few small and minute aspects, which we tend to forget in our married life, as we get busy with the daily chores. So at times it is important to indulge in those minute details of a married life, which will constantly remind each other of the love and concern being present. We can conclude by the quote of Barnett Brickner, which says it, all that "Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate."
@shemb1 (465)
• Sri Lanka
9 Jan 07
wow thank this is good idea and thank you for again. I think you ahve tald me nice things. Keep it up this good thing and hope you will have nice marriage too.And as I said before I am telling to you again post like this things as ueual friend.