my hubby has been rumored of kissing a 13yo teenager!!

@leonilyn (467)
Philippines
January 8, 2007 10:57pm CST
one saturday morning our neighbor confronted my husband infront of me why he had kissed our 15yo neighbor. i was shocked and couldnt belive. my hubby denied the accusations immediately. when i asked the girl she told me that its true. i told her to take it legally but she refused for she is afraid that her mother might know what is happening. we decided to move from there and now living blocks away from them. have we done right? i dont want to think that it is true for i know my husband. but who knows? i am kinda confused. :(
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@linda345 (2661)
• Canada
9 Jan 07
Why did you move? Is it because of the accusation? I would be very cautious with this one as you have children yourself. I don't understand why she would be afraid to take it legally. I would monitor the situation closely and hope that there is no more trouble.
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@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
10 Jan 07
i am the one who decided to move because i cant take it to walk down the street when i know everybodys talking about what had happened. the are like talking and when i reached ifront of them they are quiet.. ;( and when i look back they are looking at me.
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@linda345 (2661)
• Canada
10 Jan 07
That would be hard to live like that. I hope everything works out for you. Hold your head up and go with your guy feeling.
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@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
10 Jan 07
yeah! its really hard for me to deal with the situation. yes i am trying to keep my head up. :)
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• United States
9 Jan 07
You are kind of confused I would think you would be angry. It would be hard enough to forgive you husband for kissing another adult but kissing a child. He needs to seek professional help and if you are willing to stick with him then go to therapy with him. If you have children it is even more scary and of the utmost importance that he gets the guidance he needs to never look at young people like that again. Best of luck...
@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
9 Jan 07
yes your right i am really confused. my hubby is kinda honest when our relationship is concerned. that 15yo girl was known of being a liar. she tried to accuse her friend of stealing her celphone when in fact its not true. thanks for posting..
@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
9 Jan 07
thanks for posting.. :)
• India
11 Jan 07
A Marriage will be successfull only if there is trust between the husband and wife.We don't know whether the girl was saying truth or a lie. It may be because the girl may be pressurised by your neighbour in order to blackmail your husband. And basic thing is you will be knowing more about your husband, his nature etc, so judge on that sense. But moving from there will get you some amount of peace of mind aswell as will keep you away from any kind of humiliations which you would have to face if you would have stayed there.
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@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
yes youre right.. i feel better now that we lave there.. i really dont know if that girl is lying or not. because she used to tell us before that theres a lot of guy who sourted her.. and when some of our neighbors asks some of the guys they told us its not true.. so from there i started to figure things out.. and besides i can say that my husband is honest with. i know before he has a lot of girls when we are still bf and gf.. but when we gor married he is not already.. at first hes having a hard time. but now i can say that he has no flings already.
@rachelcaron (1681)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I'm sorry you are in this situation. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with your husband. Communication is key! If you are serious about keeping the relationship together I suggest marriage counseling and perhaps therapy for your husband as well. A grown up man should not be kissing teenagers. good luck!
@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
thanks girl... yeah i would like to do some marriage counseling.. i have known for some free marriage counseling. but i will talk with my hubby first.