Marriage Cheaters

I think my heart would split in two. See if they wanted a threesome just to get the truth, then tell him/her that you should have an affair too. ultimately just walk away and take as much as I can. Get lots of councilling, before you self destruct

I honestly dont think I could forgive something like that. I think that is the ultimate form of betrayal in a marriage. I have even told my husband that the only 2 reasons I would ever leave him would be if he cheated or if he hit me. In my opinion, if you truely are in love with someone you wouldnt WANT to be with anyone else and you wouldnt want to hurt that person you are married to. I caught my husband just CHATTING to other girls online and now I've lost all of my trust in him and am constantly asking myself, "who is he with? who is he talking to?". Trust is the main key in a healthy relationship and once that is gone, it is very hard to get it back!...If he cheated on me with my best friend then I dont think I could ever forgive my friend either!

my husband and i were married for 10 year's and he cheated on me with a friend at work..it was a one night thing but i for gave him..it has taken along time to get over but i did..we are going on 20 years now and we are so much in love now then we have ever been..life goes on with or without them its all up to you and forgiveness and how much you love them..hes in a music band and goes out every weekend sometimes i go..but when its just him i dont sit around and think well who is he with now..haveing trust and love it helps alot..its has taken along time to get the trust back..hes my life and im his..

I will leave him without any second thought If he really cheats if it is an accodent then also i wun forgive him... as I can tolerate everything besides this...

i have cheated on someone i deeply love and to be honest i will constantly fear he is gona do the same to me. i only did it coz i just needed to know what it was like and i dont even feel guilty. so at the end of the day if he's cheated on you he'll be thinking that you may do the same and really you will be in control of the situation and from my point of view i would never do it again

My husband and I are deeply in love and would never hurt one another with something such as cheating. We've talked about it, and if cheating were to ever come into the picture.. the end result would be very nasty.. and neither of us want that... but in order to keep things interesting.. sometimes you have to do different things.. and no.. Im not talking about kinky things that you refuse to do.. but something to spark it up. There is no reason one should have to go elsewhere.

a long time ago my sister was living with me and she found out that het boyfriend was cheating with one of her friends, she walked over to the girls house knocked on the door and punched her in the face, she then came home took all of his stuff out the front poured petrol all over it and set it on fire. i thought it was the funniest thing she had ever done {except the punch} that was it relationship finished. she now has a good man and they have 5 children together.

love does not mean together! if you really love him you must forgive everything he did on you wrong! but i think you cant disguise nothing happened and live with him. so that some1 say: The truth is not really you want to know...if for me i would forgive him and still love him but not live together.

Feel like booting him out.

I'd be hurt than kick his rear out..if he wants her, he can go live with her. Then she can do all of the other wifely duties until he chaets on her too...

I would be devastated to learn that i am betrayed by the people I trusted the most in my life ..Under those circumstances i would walk without looking back

nothing, knowing it wont last with her too.

Cheating in all forms is not acceptable. It is to be condemned/deplored.

Mortified naturally. I'd walk away without looking back, regardless of children and circumstance. I don't need those type of people in my life.