how many children a couples should have after mairage for a healthy life?

@starboy (119)
Pakistan
January 10, 2007 7:06am CST
or they shouldn't have any? my opinion is 2 kids will be the best idea,,wat ya say??
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12 responses
• United States
11 Jan 07
I think it depends on the couple. If they don't want kids, then no kids would be best. If they love kids, then they should have as many as they want. Children are great, but they're not all that makes a healthy marriage.
@shorva (923)
• Philippines
10 Jan 07
that would be sad if couples wldnt have kids!!i mean what would they live for then or work for?i think 2 is good just like what you've said.it be better if you have both genders too.right?
@starboy (119)
• Pakistan
10 Jan 07
yeah friend absolutly right i agree what u said that ther should be both genders,thank you.
• United States
30 Jan 07
I find that offensive. I never intend on having children and I don't see how that's "sad". I live and work for myself and my fiance.
• Pakistan
3 Feb 07
i think that it depends to me i think 3
• India
5 Feb 07
i prefer//....2...
@Chuxen (29)
• Israel
30 Jan 07
3-4 kids depending on their income.
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I think it depends on the individual couple. If a couple doesn't want to have kids, then they definitely shouldn't, because kids deserve to grow up in a home where their parents really want them and care for them. However, if the couple really wants kids, then I don't really think there's a set number that is the best, as long as they're able to support them and love them! I definitely want to have kids one day, and I hope to have 2 or 3. :)
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I think they should have as many as they can afford & agree upon. The number is going to be different for everyone. We have 3 girls at this point. They are 7 1/2, almost 6 & almost 3 weeks. We may have one more child, we have not decided yet. We would be happy with the 3 we have or having 1 more.
• United States
10 Jan 07
For me I'd say its 2 to 3.
@pisceans (65)
• Pakistan
13 Jan 07
yes its only 2 or 3 kids a couple should have after marrige not before marrige....
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I agree with you, a married couple can have to kids if its possible 1 boy and 1 girl can do for as long both can be sent to school and all their needs are properly provided. if you are financially capable then you can increase the size of family. the best thing is to provide not only the physically need but as well the other needs (emotional, physchological, etc.) of the children.
@Chuxen (29)
• Israel
30 Jan 07
3-4 kids depending o their income.
@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
The number of children should be planned accordingly by the couple it is for them to decide how they manage to raise their child. The stability of the couples income and resources are factors to consider. It is not advisable for married couple to have more children that they cannot afford to raise.