why marriages fail
28 Jan 07
earlier We can see that before any marriage to be fixed ,some astrological calculations are done to match their luck n all ..and if it doesnt matchk ..then they dont think the marrying couple is an appropriate one..bt now a days all these rituals r neglected and believed as sperstitious..bt dont u think friends that this could be one of the reason behind this failure of marriage.?? couple do break up cz they dont find match in their thinking , their behaviour , their living style ..and this only happens cz their astrological calculations doesnt match...just think about it once my frnd...
28 Jan 07
Marriage is a vocation and not an option. Once you decided to get married, build it and don't break it. Both husband and wife has the responsibility to strengthen their bond. Quarrels can't be avoided specially if financial problems arise. Its just a test of how strong the bonding is. Tempatations most often occur in husbands side can be avoided if and only if you know the consequences. It's hard to get married more than once. :)
20 Jan 07
Marriage may be a bond but should bind people involved in the relationship, otherwise it may break sooner or later. Marriages fail either because of over expectations or neglect by either party involved in the marriage no matter whatever be the reason we attribute. A marriage that lasts is one with mutual sacrifices. There is no contract in the world without mutual consent and adjustments. If one breaks the basic rules of this divine concept itwould be difficult to pull on except at the magnanimity of the other which is quite rare now. A marriage with the support of 2 families have more chances of survival than a marriage of 2 individuals without the support of their famiilies which is why 98 percent of Indian/Asian marriages survive.
• United States
10 Jan 07
Marriages should be a partnership. Each person should strive to be themselves but commit to the other person in all things. I think when people are selfish and think only of themselves, strife happens. One should look at both sides of an issue and learn to give & take. In a marriage you have to learn to take the good with the bad and make it work. Believe in the other person. When things go wrong, don't immediately give up cause it is too hard to deal with. Work it out. Work together. Remember "why" you fell in love with that person.