I am a 22 years old girl , I have problem in relationships , Ask for help !

Well I think that you should make a serious conversation with him about your relationship.. The case of the girl in the bar: don't just jump into conclusions.. I think that you sholud just ask him.. If your dating him for a year I guess that you trust each other right? So you can talk with hime about everything?

hi! i think, since this is the first time, you should give him a benefit of doubt and donot snap at him just because he was seen with a girl. that part is okay but the lying bit is not acceptable. u should reason with him and ask him why did he have to lie? donot show your eagerness in this matter and he would confide in you the truth sooner or later as he loves you for sure. this is just a passing phase and he did it out of monotony, i guess. i would have let him go, would not have bothered to show that i was sad. pretend you are not sad and hurt. let go and if he really loves and cares he's gonna come back to you and never leave. good luck!

Jealousy will only push you further apart. Confront him with what you saw, but don't do it in a jealous and confrontational manner. Don't get all emotional. Just ask him what is going on and why does he think that he needs to lie to you. Ask him if he is serious about your realtionship or if it time to get serious about finding another companion it can be painful but worse is to be played for a fool. And a jealous fool is one of the worst kinds of fool to become.

Just be firm in asking him that whether he loves u or not and if u are not satisfied with your replies think twice before committing

I heard husbands often tell lie to wifes. and do Boys often tell lie to girls now? Your feelings must be grasped by yourself:)

i tell u what. once a guy lies..we cant give them another chance. how do i know. cos i caught my ex lying..and he told me that he is sorry but he neve chance. although diff ppl diff character..but i still hope that u will think carefully. confront him bout what u saw..tell him how u feel..ok. good luck.

well, love is a feeling, if you dont fell good, then thats a bad feeling. love could lead to marriage, thats a contract. if the the love could not lead to the contract, then thats not a good love.

Well Please do not take personal offence if the response hurts your feeling. Now what i get from your experience and from many of them i have met or had contacts is this that this guy is cheating on you. Look he is not only double or multiple dating I am quite sure he might also be talking rot about you to his friends or his inner circle. Look a girl always does not need to have a boy friend , If the guy who proposed you is good its fine to go along with him but the best thing will be "forget everyone' be single reorganise your thoughts then think over about a relationship afresh in few months time. You would be betetr judge

Well I think you are in a grave siuation! You badly need to have word with ur boy friend. What I advice is:- Your boyfriend do not seems to be very faithful to you,I advice that u should fall in a relation with some one who loves you and not with some one you loves!

See fearing truth and feeling bad is not a solution. You are feeling bad anyways. You cannot hide truth and neither can u change fate so talk and get things clarified. Tell him something like i dont suspect you but its hurting me cz u dont need to hide anything from me. I think there must be something that you were helping her out but i just want to know y u dint say right thing to me?? Am i hitler?? I have accepted as u r with both your mistakes and good things. Just give me a chance to comfort you. I hope am not putting you in awkward situation by ssaying like this. See the better you know the truth is good for u.

its a problem when 2 people ideas are different all the time but in your situation its not a big problem.The big problem is that he lied to you. there could have been possibilty that he was with her friend in bar but as he lied that means something is definitely goin on in between them or maybe he lied because he thought u would think wrong if he tells u the truth. Dont make a quick decision. wait and see his response.if he really loves he will come bak. X

ur bf lied it 2 u. ask him to give a genuine reason.or else tell him that "i need time". take ur time n dont extend ur relationship further,untill u r confirmed.

First off your 22 years young. You will most likely meet and have a heart for many more men. Only you can decide wether or not someone is right for you. Your heart will tell you what to do. Asking for advice about relationships can sometimes complicate matters. Follow your heart and you will do no wrong. Good luck

i am not trying to upset you, but if you feel that you can't trust your guy because of his lies, then i think you should end the relationship. if the guy is player, no matter how or what you do, there just no way of keeping him and the relationship. as a matter of fact you're putting yourself in a situation that makes you less worthy that what you truly are.

I dont agree with anyone lying. I think that why lie unless you feel you are doing something wrong or something you shouldnt. Obviously one of the two is the case. I would dump him. Loving him or not, he lied

Well I would say that you should talk to him frankly and be as straightforward as you could be. But also try to be diplomatic in your talks with him.Also, let him know that you really love him and why did he tell a lie to you. Ask him if he is not happy with the relationship and if he wants to step out of it. Also, I would say that you should love the one who loves YOU and not the one whom you love....so decide soon and best of luck.

Sometimes relationships that started very well begin to flounder, and this can be painful. There may be a need to separate for a while, to examine your feelings. It may be that you will get back together and appreciate each other more.

i think u should confront him and tell him that u know that he lied and ask him for an explanation... as far as your relationship is concerned i think both of u have to sit down and decide what ur priorities are and what u mean to each other... i dont think there should be to much of a problem if ur views contrast on some matters but u should have some common interests otherwise u will end up fighting...and as u say u love him both of u will have to put in that extra effort to keep ur relationship going...

First be confirmed about the fact if he's ur boyfriend.Now consider the fact that if he can cheat upon you then you can also cheat upon him.Dont indulge yourself in relationship hangovers.Be brave and firm about whom you should love and whom you shouldn't.If he is not bothered about his affair with you,then its always better for you to mind your life and if possible find another partner. all d best

I think you don`t life in the past, because this is going to cause sadness to you, and belive me men don`t like this womans