What is the first thing you look when your looking for a relationship?

I think I go for physical attraction. If he passed that, then its about time to get to know the person even more. Character is another important factor. He should have a good heart inside.

The first impression is always based on looks but when u get to know a person u will see how their looks can change. i do not think it is true that all men wants a barbie. I am certainly not ne and i have never had problems findng a date. I know that there is a few perfect guys out there for you if u didn´t find him already =)

One of the first things I look for in a person would be their personality. I think personalities are important, and then communication comes second. If we have awesome communication then I think we have a chance at a good relationship. I try not to focus things on the outside, but the inside. I think women do that more then men.

That sounds like a good idea. When I look for a relationship, I try to find things that we have in common and how we get along together.

Definitely, we go for looks as the first factor to consider. A certain person caught our interests or attentions if we find something physically attractive on him. During the getting to know stage, personality and commonalities then we give serious and careful considerations. And when you are in a relationship, maturity, total commitment and minimum level of compatibility are those factors that makes the relationship strong and last over time, aside from LOVE of course.