Having Sister Problems:
January 11, 2007 11:40am CST
heres the scoop...My youngest sister always been this way...She always makes up stuff, just for attention. Or thats my thinking...I love her! I honestly do. But for the past 10 years shes told people my grandmother had beat her, my mother had beat her, until shes black and blue. shes been locked up in the house, shes been almost starved to death, i beat her, She barely has any clothes because i take it or no one buys her any. thats how she was through middle school also, it got soo bad she called S. S. on my grandmother and mom! we had to go to the police station and tell them it wasnt true! thats when the cop asked me if we had food in the refridge, and what our rooms were like. well now shes 18, i thought she grew out of it. Shes pregnant, and the dude that knocked her up, left her for another girl. I though she grew up a little. She went to maryland because her best friends mom said she could stay there and help her out! Heres the problem: She went up there last sunday, she called me monday morning telling me shes a slave, she wants to come home, shes home sick, ect...Making it out like this lady, is being a real B*...I called mom, mom said shed buy her a bus ticket...Well just yesterday, Star, thats the name of the lady whos taking her in, called mom. Apparently my sister has told this lady that my mom is desperately sick, and is going to die, and she needs her home, ect. Mom told her it wasnt true, Well star asked her why cant she just let my sisters twin help her out...My moms like wtf/! there is no twin, the only kids my mom had was My older sis, me, and her...Apparently my sister told this lady that my mom had twins, and sold or gave her twin away cause she couldnt take care of it...and she didnt want any kids, plus that my mom still beats her and thats why she wanted out of the state, wanted to go to maryland. She said mom never bought her anything, for christmas, or her birthday, and that one of my moms boyfriends raped her! Then told the lady that I had taken all her stuff, and i knew about the beatings and how i laughed when it happend... I dont know what to do, i am soo mad...Why is she lying this bad? Shes using people to live off of them, she is not wanting to take care of herself! Plus shes making up stories so people can feel sorry for her...I swear all this stuff is not true i dont know where she has gotten it from...I remember catching her on my computer, talking to some dude on msn messenger, telling him i stabbed her with a knife, and let her bleed until she passed out once...once again that was in middle school, i asked her why she is doing this and she started to bawl and begged me not to tell anyone...Is she doing this for some attention? What is wrong with her? I thought she grew out of this a while back... I honestly love my sister! I want her back here in ky with me...but now i want her to stay in maryland, until she can get her act together, i mean really, shes pregnant....and shes not even worrying about that, she wants to live from home to home, she doesnt want to return to moms house, and she dont want to stay in maryland cause she knows no one up there and doesnt want to pick up after herself in star's house, thats the only thing star asked her to do, was to pick up after herself... I know star, she use to live down here in kentucky, and she is a very clean person, but shes not forcing amanda to be a slave! This is the lady my sister wanted to adopt as a mother...my sister stayed there all summer when she was down here, and now shes telling everyone that this women is making her a slave? Does she need help? Should i help her come down here or make her stay up there and maybe she'll straighten up?
• United States
13 Jan 07
I really think she needs some presfessional help. I think maybe something is seriously wrong with her. I'm sorry about all that trouble you have to go through - and then deal with TJ. God loves him and so do I but I know he's a handful too. I give you much props. But seriously. Get that girl some help.
• United States
13 Jan 07
Well she is on her way home now on a bus, that she had her teacher buy a ticket through the internet...I mean i love her i truely do, and she calls me for help all the time, and i ask her why does she do this, why! and she cant give me an answer, now we found out that scott got stacey pregnant, and now he has no use for amanda, you know? I cant abandon her, i love her, but she makes me soo mad and i just want to strangle her sometimes too...I cant make her get help either, shes got to want it...i am at a lost here you know?
• United States
13 Jan 07
honestly, when i last talked to her on the bus she said shes threw with scott and is going to get him for child support...But i know its easier said then done....As for TJ he wants nothing to do with her, or my family, lol...hes soo bull headed, its just he gets soo into these and doesnt really understand "love". Honestly! I think his mom really messed that up for him...I mean he feels love, just dont know how to express it, or take it, you know?