love marriage or arranged marriage

love or arrange marriage - an cartoon picture showing a married couple
@abbu20 (207)
India
January 12, 2007 7:51am CST
with the growing world and growing changes in the world one thing which changed very fast among us is our choice of marrige. before our parents used to take dessissions for our marriages and choose the girl also. but now the trend has changed, now people are getting their choice of women as their wife, in other words they are doing love marriages. so friends what according to u think is a good choice,in getting arranged maggriage or love marriage. i think arrange marriages are good. the static which shows us that in 60% of the love narriages brakes where as only30% of arrange marriages brake what u think? love or arrange?
3 responses
@18111983 (66)
• Bangladesh
12 Jan 07
our marriage was love marriage.but today we are passing with lots of problem.sometimes i thought that i did wrong.now in my minds arrange marriage is the best.beacuse parent's are the best & they will think always good for us.we should not hurt them at all.
@abbu20 (207)
• India
19 Jan 07
marriages are made in heaven.its now up to us that how well we try to keep with our partner and why love marriages are failure because u will know ur partner personally even before getting married right from her choice till personal relation thats the diff in love and arranged marriage. if u have problems now try to solve it cause u married her. right.
• India
12 Jan 07
I prefer arranged marriage over love marriage. Iam the lone son to my parents.So i don't want to hurt them marrying a girl and then saying to them or quarelling with them for a girl.But i will marry a girl only after making a nice rapport with her, that too arranged one.Me understanding her and she understanding me as we are the ones going to move forward with life.
@abbu20 (207)
• India
19 Jan 07
u wont have any problem in ur married life...........cause u giving time for both of u for understanding and going with ur parents choice. this is the most imp thing which one has to understand.
@aries_0325 (3062)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
Yes, I believe that, but as a free person, I would choose the person I love and I would choose a love marriage. For me, I would choose to a love marriage. I would choose this because I believe that having a love to the person who you marry will bring a good harmony to your relationship and it is not hard to be him/her for the rest of your life.