falling in love with your buddy

Philippines
January 12, 2007 11:01pm CST
Is it right to fall for your very close friend? your buddy? I am starting to feel so weird after I spent time with my friend/buddy when I visited him in his place. There were physical gestures showing mutual understanding but words were unspoken. I am having a hard time now understanding evrything. Would it be right if I first be the one to open the topic for him or should I wait?
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4 responses
• United States
13 Jan 07
Of course it is. Some of the best relationships are those who come from couples who were friends first. It's preferable, in fact, to have that underlying friendship, because the butterflies in the stomach come and go, and in times when they go, if you have that underlying friendship and companionship with your partner, that will keep you drawn to the person you are with and cause the love to return even sooner.
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
As they say its really a best relationship if you start it being as close firends because you understand each other very well. The difficult part I would say is to start the relationship, changing it to something more deeper, and accepting it that you like him. I think more confidence and guts is needed.
• India
13 Jan 07
its quite natural to fall in love with your buddy n theres nothin wrong in it.friends understand each other very well n know their inside out so such a relationship will be surely successful as for any relationship all u need is trust,understanding,love and respect...and friendship offers all these.
@psylock (47)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
its good to have bf and gf when you are friends before cuz you mearly understand each other that makes you a wonderful couple
• Indonesia
13 Jan 07
of course you have that right, there are rules on loving (relationship), there are : 1. everyone have rights to fall in love 2. everyone have rights to be loved 3. everyone have rights to choose their loved ones well, for me, i don't make any mistakes by loving someone, but i do make a great mistakes if i love someone and i don't let her know that i love her ...