the most disgusting comment i've ever heard!

@maryannemax (12176)
Sweden
January 13, 2007 1:02am CST
my boyfriend and i lives in different countries. i still don't have my own internet connection at home. so i need to go to an internet shop to chat with my boyfriend. one time, there was this girl that i really don't know of interrupting while i was chatting to my boyfriend. she went up to the question: "so, how much does your boyfriend send you per month?". i frowned and said that i don't ask money from my boyfriend and that i don't love him because i am up for the money. guess what she commented! She said so loud as to everyone in that shop could here: "why? are you rich so as not to ask money from him? i logged out and went to another internet shop. for you, as per experience, what was the most disgusting comment you have ever heard?
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@amoreco (180)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I was working at the mall, and when I got engagged one girl came up to me and instead of saying congratulatios, she said"Are you preagnant"?I laught and said No!We are in love!!...I wasn't preagnant..we had a baby 5 years later!Another one..I went to pick up my wedding dress at the shop, and I tried the dress to show my mother in law,and she said it was horrible!I cried for hours!
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@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
my brothers do that to me also. but just for fun. i look thin but my tummy is really big. heheheh. so, they make fun about me being pregnant for years now. and congratulations for your baby! maybe your mother in law was just trying to joke on you. or was it really said to hurt you? i hope not.
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@katskie (128)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
You were so in control that you just transfered from another internet shop. My story was different. I was engaged before to my fil-british fiance. Well he is insensitive sometimes. He is being arrogant. He gave me an expensive diamond engagement ring then afterwards he told me whatever happens I should not pawn it. It is important to him. Like you I never demanded anything from him. I have an internet at home because of a homebase job thats how we met. I know he is filipino by blood but it seems like he dont trust any filipino. I felt sad. After that comment, my pride was hurt. It wasnt the only incident that made me think twice about the wedding plans.
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@korek222 (705)
• Poland
13 Jan 07
i think that he was rather saying that even if you broke up or something you shouldn't pawn this ring cause it is his gift of love for you and it should be consideret only by it's emotional price not for it's dollar price. But i can be wrong
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
we need to face the fact that most filipinos are into going to pawnshops when they need money. and we're known through that fact. maybe that's why your boyfriend told you that. and i might have been depressed, too if my boyfriend will even joke about it. so, how you two? i hope you're doing well with the relationship.
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@amanda84 (264)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 07
the most disgusting comments i ever heard is frm one of my colleague. he asked me how great is my bf in bed. i mean - hey come on- y u wan to know such things. whether he is great or not- its my problem not urs. anyway i just smile and walk away.
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@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
such a comment should not be asked since it's too private already. people should learn to respect other's privacy.
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@pusiket (1759)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
How come she asked you such silly questions when in fact she's not part of the chat? Just don't mind those kind of persons. I normally ignore those people who gave me words that I don't needed.
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
i don't know. she just wanna bug in and try to ruin my mood i guess. or maybe she's just curious.
@camille101 (1027)
• United Arab Emirates
13 Jan 07
Oh how sad it can be. Really, in industrial countries in Asia & some parts of the world, people just have this kind of mentality. The only thing in their mind is "MONEY", and being jealous if you got the opportunity to have this, especially having a foreign bf abroad. Anyway, let's accept the truth there will always be people like her, don't spoil your mood, you know yourself & your feelings & intentions. Be yourself girl.
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
i might not really be annoyed if only i wasn't really talking to my boyfriend. i need to go to an internet shop just to spend a little time to my boyfriend and it makes me annoyed when people butt in and giving unnecessary marks.
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
Well, I do understand your feelings. It's very common to hear those comments especially here in our country. As long as you love each other, that's all that should matter right. It just happened that the love of your life is in the other side of the world.
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@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
people are just too judgmental here in the philippines. and sometimes, i hate how people thinks.
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
i have a foreigner bf b4, im lucky that people knows that is not the intension why were together. she's just jealous maybe thats her source of income or she's planning to have one at your extent. some people tends to be judgemental and narrow minded because of too many things going on the internet. don't mind pathetic loosers. whats important is what's between you and your guy. Enjoy and goodluck to marriage :)
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@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
for sure, it's her way of earning money. which is i am different from her. she should not think that all women are like her!
@seenoreen (562)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
People are very rude nowadays. If you don't know someone, don't try to give your comment especially if it could hurt other people, compliments are fine. It's good that you decided to answer her back and leave the place. I didn't really experienced a disgusting comment but rather an insult comment that turned out to be funny for me. I had a classmate in college and my friend heard her commenting that I was fat. I just laughed it off because the girl who commented was fatter than me, it's really hilarious.
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
yep. people these days are rude. you're right. they comment and that they are even worst than the person they gave comments to. they are stupid.
@babbla21 (80)
• India
13 Jan 07
You should say her are you a pros? I mean she is asking to pay her for her friendship with boy friend.isn't it?
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@ahsan15 (335)
• India
13 Jan 07
exactly correct!!
@sarojrath (248)
• India
13 Jan 07
i too had a situation when i was commented by a unknown person on the road. i was on my way tohome after college. i was on my bike and it had rained taht day. there was water on the road on was still raining. i was wet so was in a hurry. unknowingly the water on he road was splitted on the guy standing by the side of the road. he told started shouting at me and told me whether i was blind or what. it was a market place and near to my house. i felt really bad to hear something ike that as many other heard it too. i cant forget the day even today also.
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• Israel
13 Jan 07
That really is such a nasty comment that you got. People do have the notion that local girls get foreigners as boyfriends with the hope that they will receive money from them. This is such a bad idea. I have a cousin who is now marry to an American. They now live in Hawaii. I never saw her asking money from her American husband. In fact, she even shared the expenses of his stay in Manila. Not all girls are materialistic. They always try to find love even in a foreigner if given the chance.
• India
13 Jan 07
definetly comments like this are most disgusting moments for us we will see in our day to day life, some people suddenly comment some thing which they feel that the comment wont hurt the opposit person, but perception of the recieving person will de differnet, so if we want to do comment, be careful about how the opposite person recieves it, most of the time i commented my friends, but all the time they recived it jovelly.
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@riyasam (16583)
• India
13 Jan 07
i am an introvert.as a result i speak to select few people and i have overheard that i am a proudy as i am a doctor.
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@korek222 (705)
• Poland
13 Jan 07
you are right - this girl behaved terrible. You should say something nasty to her too like ... i dont know - "go grab money you selfish ..." or whatever but you should her responded her in a nasty taste. I cant recall any distgusting comment someone ever made on me but i think that there was plenty of it coming sometimes.
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• India
13 Jan 07
most disgusting comment i heard from someone is: once i was sitting with my girlfriend in the class room & their was a boy who was quite jealous of us.in anger he came to me & aloud he said that "saale kitna chumega ise".my girlfriend was taken aback by his wordings & now she never come close to me in front of every one.
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
oh.. and what do "saale kitna chumega ise" mean?
• United States
13 Jan 07
That is very disgusting. You should not love someone by how much money they have or what they send you. You should love from your heart, it's not materialistic. That makes me sick to my stomach... society these days.
@roopsimi (50)
• Australia
14 Jan 07
when people interrupt me with negative remarks for no reason , i just say something like, "i am doing quite fine without ur help minding my own bussiness, why dont u just do the same." and ignore them thereafter. some people just have no respect for others feelings.
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
17 Feb 07
that is so true. people just can't mind their own business. they want to intrude on your personal life. the worst part is that they don't even know you nor you know them.
@sindai (204)
• Canada
14 Jan 07
awe man....I would have called her major names like...."are you a golddigger?" haha....That is very rude of her. Good for you for walking away, but me personally....I probably would have punched her out!
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
17 Feb 07
i don't have much guts to punch her. but i really wanted to. i just don't want to make much of a scene there.
@mrrubia (60)
• Philippines
14 Jan 07
hmm many girls, gays, old maid, matrona's in the philippines are chatting to make money i mean they will look some guy's abroad tru chat clients in short they will made them there boyfriends and ask some money etc... in exchange sometimes they will show there body etc.. But some of them find love... and i think you're one of the living proof that finded love on the net :) btw me too i met my GF on the net and we are planning to get married :)
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
17 Feb 07
i am happy for you. so, when's the plan of the wedding? yep. some do go for the money. sad but true. i know people who do this and i feel bad to the people they turn out as their victims. such people should respect others' lives and not ask money from them.
@mkirby624 (1599)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Who asks for money from their boyfriend?? You're not married, you don't support each other financially. I don't know if I've ever had a comment that offended me that badly. Someone recently told my grandmother-in-law "Gosh, Katie sure has gained weight since her wedding" I was slightly offended by that, but seeing as how I only gained 5 pounds (since JUNE) which pushed me up to a whopping 113 pounds, I wasn't really hurt. Plus the girl who said it is probably 3 times my size, so she really didn't have a lot of room to talk about weight.
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
17 Feb 07
obviously, that girl who gave you that weird comment is just envious of you. so, it was nice of you to just smile about it.
@avs189 (1031)
• India
13 Jan 07
The most disgusting comment which still shivers my mind is the one abt girl whom i liked..I was watching her eating inside the college canteen ,,a boy jealous of me came up and said "she is ur sister!!!!!!!!!",,,really painful...
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
oh. more of annoying to than painful.