friendship...

Singapore
January 13, 2007 5:27am CST
I am sure everyone who read this discussion have a lot of friends...and some whom you are on better relaionship with...ur good or best friend... i believe every1 of us share our innermost secrets with our friends...and when we have troubles...we will tell them...you would do almost everything and anything with he friend closest to you... now is the most important question...why would you do all that...ur innermost secrets...wad if he/she spread it to every1 else...all ur trouble...wad if they stab u in the back n get u in2 more trouble...do everything n anything togather...wad if they are jealous of u n snatch away somethings tat r most precious to u... Well...the answer why we do all that to our closest friend is because we TRUST them...yes...the important word...TRUST...i believe tat everthing is base in TRUST...if there's no trust...there nothing...with TRUST...we believe in our friend n tat's why we do all tat... But sometimes...there's misunderstanding n tat result in lost in trust... I have a good friend and she and her best friend are in some sort of misunderstanding...they lost their trust in each other...thay each felt very bad and wanted to do something to revive the friendship but nothing can be done because the TRUST is gone... Imagine that you are in a house which has only one window and no any thing else...the only way to see the outside world is the window...TRUST is like sunshine, it shines clearly and let you see everything outside...trust is like water which cleans the window to make it clear...but when the TRUST is gone...dark clouds follows and dust settle on the window...you cannot see anything outside...you start not to trust...you start to suspect because you can't see anything out there...as tis enlong...the window gets dustier and dustier...the TRUST gone and nothing else will make the window bright n clear like before...the friendship is gone juzt like tat...juz because of losing the TRUST...the house with 1 window is our heart...once's the trust is gone...nothing else can go into ur heart and all is gone... i think that we must always have TRUST in our friend....no matter what happens because to be friends...there must be afflinity...n fate plays a part too...there are billions of ppl in the worls...why do we make friends with her and not him??since fate let us meet each other and be friends...we must treasure this afflinity...we must never lose the TRUST we had in each other... we make friends with who we trust...to be good friends or best friends...we must trust them even more...if we had that trust in them in the 1st place...why let some small misunderstanding ruin that TRUST... To all...if you are currently in some misunderstanding with a friend...discard your suspision...trust him/her again...don't lose the precious friendship between you two...n to the others...TREASURE the afflinity n the fate that brings you 2 together...
1 response
@naka75 (797)
• Singapore
9 Feb 07
I do not what you are writing about with all these whole chunks of words making me dizzy. If you want someone to respond, you should keep your questions simple and give a short introduction only. No one would ever answer when they cannot understand you.