Is it important to be virgin till you marry

India
January 14, 2007 10:32am CST
the place where i live it is important to be virgin till you marry though almost everyone seems to have an affair at teenage but still everyone is a hypocrite telling the opposite of what they actually are, how long did you stay virgin
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10 responses
@Lecaro (1105)
• Romania
14 Jan 07
no it isn't important to be virgin till you marry! it is important that first time to be with someone that you love very much...
• India
16 Jan 07
Great... I agree with you....
@20031969 (934)
• India
27 Feb 07
it depends on you whether you want to be virgin before marry or not. it is a democratic country where you can take your decision own and nobody will pressure you for your decision.
@flikkenni (540)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
I think it was depend on you girl and your boyfriend that virginity is important or not till you marry. If your boyfriend or you think it was okay that you don't need virginity till you married. but i think, if someone have their virginity till they married you can earn more respect from your family, friends or even your boyfriend. Because you can keep your virginity what ever happen. Although many girls have lost their virginity.
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
yes i guess as they said " that's the best gift you can give on the night of your honeymoon to your husband".
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
I think these days it is not that important anymore since eveybody is doing it. The most important is the feelings that you have for the person and also the attitude.
@ichampin (594)
• India
16 Jan 07
I think it not neccessary to get married as a virgin these days, most of the people are having relationships these days and they are so much involved with each other that they wanted to break every barrier between them. Sometimes in the waves of passion some people got involved in physical relationship and after that there are two things which happens, Your relationships gets stronger or your reltionship gets dizzy, if the guy is not committed the later one has a great chance. When we are in relationship and we have full faith in opposite person then we can mix physically with each other, but what we have done in a relationship is on the basis of committment and faith. so I can understand that why many people these days are not virgin.
• Canada
16 Jan 07
I really don' think virginity matters, as long as the two people are in love. I think it matters what the couple prefers, not what everyone says they should be. My partner and I are not virgins, and weren't when we met. That doesn't matter to us.
@ninetails (154)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
hmmm.. very interesting topic. Well let's see the question of virginity for me is really not an issue. Heck me and my wife were not virgins when we got married and its no big deal for me if she is not a virgin anymore, you know why? Because my love for her supersedes it. Hence its not a big factor. The important thing is you respect and love each other.
• Nigeria
14 Jan 07
It is very important that the bed of marriage is not defiled,It builds trust in the marriage.
• India
14 Jan 07
no virginity does not hold much of a value in this world anymore.but if you can sustain it until you get married then it is a greatness of you and your partner has good luck :)