Do you trust your partner?

@zburrou1 (290)
United States
January 14, 2007 2:11pm CST
Do you trust your boyfriend, grilfriend, husband, or wife with all your heart? And why or why not?
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23 responses
@tambdy (1969)
14 Jan 07
I have never completly trusted my girlfriend because i am very insecure but she also did a few things which has made me worse. She knows i do not trust her and tells me she would never cheat as she loves me too much but you never know there is always that niggling feeling in the back of your mind.
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Well that is okay. You will learn to trust her after a while. Remember that trust is something that is earned but you are right, you never know if what they are telling you is the truth. All that I can say is protect youself okay. You never really know people now a day and the AIDS/HIV virus is speading like wildfire. So be careful. I know that is your girlfriend but you don't know people now a days.
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
yes, I'm a little bit trust you, cause nowdays we doesn't really understand people, they clever to act, that is really bothering me too,... in the other hands my girlfriends seems like never want to loose me and seems like she's really love me so much but in the other hands she's act and talk sometime like she had another love beside me ... well .... no one know the truth right ? even she always told me that she's act like that only in her mouth not with all her heart but still I never know....what is really going on inside her...
@amish2222 (235)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Of course i do. Its the basis of relationship. If there is no trust there is no relationship.
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I agree with you. Trust is needed. But you have to rememeber to protect yourself. You must trust your partner, but you have to listen to yourself as well. You will never steer yourself wrong.
• Singapore
14 Jan 07
Trust is vital in any relationships. However, trust needs to be earned.
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@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I believed that trust needs to be earned. You can not just go in trusting a person with all your heart because you might get hurt. But it is a vital part in a long lasting relationship.
@heesaf (741)
• India
14 Jan 07
I am not sure of it as i haven't met her till now.My way is long as i am still a student.
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@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Well after you have been together for a while then you can get back to me:-)
@Kscott (634)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Yes I trust my husband with every aspect of my life.....if I didn't trust him I wouldn't be with him. I know that he has my best interest in mind when it comes to issues that affect me that he is involved in. I trust him with my life and to defend my life if need be.
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@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
15 Jan 07
That is good to hear. I hope that you have many more good years with your husband.
@Kscott (634)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Yes I do. My husband is my best friend and always thinks of us and would and has done a lot and anything he could with in his means for us. I trust him with everything and to take care of me and make all my decisions the way I would like them done if I weren't able to.
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@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I am very happy for you. You have a love that many people don't have or ever came close to having in a life time. You trust your husband with you life, and you life is a very important thing. To have a husband that is a best friend as well as a lover is something very special. You gave your husband your heart and he holds on to something very dear. You are lucky to have him and he is lucky to have you. I hope that you have many good, long, and wonderful years together.
• United States
14 Jan 07
I started out trusting her, and then something happened that completely killed all my trust for her. I had the hardest time trusting her, in what she said and what she did, and she certainly didn't help that for the longest time. It took well over a year to gain a lot of that respect back. Now I trust her way more than I did, but I still have a few issues with trust, but sometimes I think it's hard to ever truly gain trust back.
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@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I am sorry to hear that you did not trust your partner at one point. I am happy to hear that you have started trusting her again even if t took well over a year of you to do. You really love her and are tying to make it work. I agree with you when you say that once you lose trust for a person that it is very hard to every fully trust them again. If you don't mind me asking, what are the trust problems that you have now? You dont have to answer I just thought that I might be able to help you with them. And good luck.
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• India
15 Jan 07
i trust my husband a lot more somtimes more than myself. i dont find any reason not to trust him. he is a very loyal and caring husband. i know he loves me a lot and i am the first aand last girl in his life. he never had anygirl friends before. he give me full respect. i just love him a lot.
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
That is so good to hear. I hope you two have a good life together. Thanks for your response.
• Canada
15 Jan 07
Yes, I trust my Sweetheart, and my Sweetheart trusts me. If we did not trust eachother, we would not have a foundation for our relationship. What's the point of being with someone whom you can not trust?
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
@jeanna (47)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
yes i do.. but sometimes he does things that i dont like.. sometimes i dont trust him because of that.. but he does things just to bring back the trust ..:D
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
@kotad6 (209)
• Pakistan
15 Jan 07
I trust my boyfriend with all my heart before. But now when he cheat me once i am afraid of trusting him. How about you ?
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
I understand what you mean. When a person cheats it is hard to trust them again. But if you love him youo have to try. If you still want to be with him that is. Thanks for your response.
@mishang (501)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
i trust him with all my love and my life. i trust him because i love him and because i know that he will not do anything to hurt or upset me. i'm confident about this because our relationship is mutual and that we've spent so many happy and also trying moments that has made the relationship not only stronger but also into full growth and maturity.
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
@UcoksBaBa (802)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
how do you this thought,when you wanted to undergo relations with someone must have been be have trusted them, and for that that for them whi were given by us the belief in order to not damage this belief of course.
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
During the first stages of the relationship, I am willing to trust my partner 100%.. Untill such time that he gives me a reason not to do so. If one day he wil break that trust I gave him... then il never trust him again. Trust is just like a piece of paper" once crampled it can never go back to the way it used to be again.
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
That you for your response.
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
Of course I thrust him but there are times where I got jealous too, I can't help it. But for me, thrust is very important for people in order to have a long lasting relationship but do not thrust too much, there should be some doubt also to make the relationship a colorful one.
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
• India
14 Jan 07
yes i trust my partner...i knw dat she can never betray me...she is very honest n loyal to me...i knw its very difficult to get a gal like mines..
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
• Romania
14 Jan 07
yes i do :)
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
• Philippines
14 Jan 07
ofcourse, i trust my boyfriend. trust is also the foundation of a good & healthy relationship. if you love your partner then you should trust him,
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
@tohot666 (300)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I trust my boyfriend with my whole heart. He has never given me a reason to doubt him
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Thank you for your response.
@Lecaro (1105)
• Romania
14 Jan 07
hi yes i trust my boyfriend! we are toghete from 3 years and half!we live together!
@zburrou1 (290)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Thank you for your response.