Is it better to marry a husband who is younger/older to you in age

@raveena (1357)
India
January 16, 2007 12:51am CST
I am married to a person who is 8 years older to me but not that I am complaining he is very loving and cares a lot about me.
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@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
i prefer men older than i, because they will take good care of you and your future. i want to be taken cared not the other way around
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@shobasvk (788)
• Malaysia
19 Jan 07
When it comes to a relationship,Age is not important.The only thing we must consider is,is that your partner really loves you..and loyal to you and so do you..Wat's the use if u marry an older man than u but he doesn't really loves u..or marrying a younger guy who are not loyal to u...It's all sometimes we might think wat the society will tell if we marry older/younger people than us..Or even our parents theirselves.Are you going to lose 4ever someone you really love just because of age problem?Ask ur self :-)
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@ayushi (224)
• India
18 Jan 07
as per indian traditions a girlshoulmarry aboywhois elder to her and that becausegirls matureearlier..well that may be true but there are many successfull marriages where the boy is younger to the lady..everything has itsown exceptions. in my views it does not matter en=ven that much as much as it is hyped.. just loveunderstand each other..and live happile..maturity does not alwayz depend upon age..it alsodepends on the the strenth of yourlove..
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@deepisin (93)
• India
18 Jan 07
well, i recommend gals to mary a guy who is older then them, coz marriage life is not an easy task, so guy should be more mature and responsible.
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@shorva (923)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
yeah i agree with what they've said girls matures earlier than men. i'm ten years younger than my husband and it really seems like we're almost the same age. i couldnt imagine marrying someone who's my age, we might just fight a lot and i couldnt stand one's childish behaviors.
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@swasti (1157)
• India
16 Jan 07
well ususally the husband is expected to be older to the woman.main reason is that women mature mentally faster than men. for example, a man will have love making desires till he is 50 yrs also.but in case of a woman she loses interest in it faster than a man .she matures both mentally and physically. when a woman gets a baby , it becomes the forst step in loosing certain interest in it , as she has got to attend her baby all the time. whereas for a man it is not so, he still has desires . aslo even if u go by looks , a woman's maturity is more faster than a man. we have seen in the film industry , a hero can be a hero for long. but a heroin does not be the same for long. she looses her charm and youthful beauty. so thats y usually men are much older to a woman in marriage and that is better for many other reasons also.