which do you like? a girl or a boy for your first baby

Singapore
January 16, 2007 2:38am CST
im still on my pregnancy stage and in the next 2 months, i will be able to determine the gender. i prefer a girl baby for my first but my husband prefers a boy. my friends told me better to have a girl first as girls are more understanding and can take care of her little sis/bro. is this true?
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@violeta_va (4842)
• Australia
5 Sep 07
kids a funny little things you never know how they would act. I dont know if that is true but I have seen that it makes no difference. my son came to me today and said (he has a limited vocabulary as he has some development delays) mummmmmmmmmm I said what, he said again mummmmmm again I said what do you want he said baby girl a little baby girl ( I said well they are little when they come out) and said go tell your father. I think my son would love to have a baby brother or sister to take care off.
• United States
5 Sep 07
I want a girl for my first. But then again, having a boy first is nice too. That way my little girl will have a protective older brother to watch out for her.
@chebin (286)
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
congrats on your baby! when i was pregnant, doesn't matter if the baby's a boy or a girl. all i wanted was to have a healthy and normal baby because my husband and i waited for quite sometime for our little angel :) now we have a very adorable baby boy :)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
a boy coz i want him to be her siblings defender.
@ephi4real (565)
• Nigeria
16 Jan 07
I'd love to have a boy first.
• India
16 Jan 07
I'm not pregnant now but i'm planning. I want to have my first baby a baby boy.
@aroraasr (428)
• India
16 Jan 07
I am also pregnant and would love to have a baby boy but my husband prefers a girl . My baby would arrive in the month of March lets see what happens.
@flordz (270)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
i asked my friend and she said she wanted it to be a boy, so that it could look like the dad. me? i want a girl.. just like me..
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
I think I prefer boy than a girl first. Cause I think a boy can protect his little brother?sister. And then, maybe when my husband die, he can change the role of the head of a family. cause I think a boy is the one who have a greater responsibilities to protect and to caring the rest of the family.
• Pakistan
16 Jan 07
i will like to have a boy up first.i love baby girls as well but i think its natural for me
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
that's not true, boy can also understanding and take care of his litle sis/bro, it's just how the way you raised and educated him. If i could choose, i'll choose that my first child is a boy, im impatient to get along with him as my companion ...
• Italy
16 Jan 07
I prefer a girl for my first baby!