No Baby

@Perry2007 (2229)
Philippines
January 16, 2007 9:14am CST
For 14 years my husband and I was trying to have a baby, every time I conceive, I get miscarriage, the longest conception was 4 months. I'm 43 years old now. Have you any suggestions or comments. It you were in a situation like mine, what would you do.
6 responses
• United States
18 Jan 07
Honestly this may not be the answer you want. But I would just stop trying. It may just not be ment to be. Our bodies get rid of pregnancies that werent ment. SUrvival of the fittest. There are so many kids in foster care, adopt one and make their lives better.
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
Thanks for your response, I guess you are right
@CORDALE (868)
• United States
18 Jan 07
hello there if you will email me i may have some information that can help you but i would prefer to talk through email i had a friend who had the same problem and i was able to help her she had a healthy baby and didnt have to go to a dr for fertility treatment. email me
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
You have not given your email, Is it against the terms to place email adress here?
@diansinta (7554)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 07
1.doctor. see what you n your husband condition, examine your seft to your condition. 2.seach and learn. about nutrition(chinese medicine, ect. for alternative medicine. 3.eat well with your nutrition and alternative medicine. 4.last but not least, Pray to God.and believe that you soon have a baby. good luck :
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
Thanks, we have gone to the doctor and they also admit the risk is high, chinese alternative medicines, i have not tried, what would you recomend, do you have a web of those, I will try to search though, thanks.
@Sissygrl (10999)
• Canada
18 Jan 07
Have you thought about adoption ? i know its not the same as your own biological children but i bet its pretty close. after all you'd still be parents. and you still have a child. It might be something to look into if you can't conceive. Or what about a sersgent mother, someone who will have your wifes egg and your sperm put into her womb and she will carry the baby till birth and then you raise the baby.
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
Adaption is good! Thanks for the other optin you have sugested, that might be considered, why not.
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
perry, the discretion of your doctor is vital. Don't quit! Don't be a quitter!
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
Thanks! You've just lifted my spirit up
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
16 Jan 07
Have you get Rh+ve test done.Take the advise of doctors. I will try to adopt a child from some orphanage so that I am able to give a child home.
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
That must be the best idea for now, Thanks for the thought