Why reality always hurts?

Philippines
January 16, 2007 9:34am CST
At the time that sudden instances came like someone special to you has gone, why does everyone feel bad or hurt? Why does if your dad has a cancer and almost dying and everyone in the family said they accepted it heartedly that it was God's will, that it was his journey in life, that it was a plan for him? but why reality really hurts? when almost people say every situation is plan and accepted? In this instances how can realities like this be accepted?
2 responses
@jhoanee (599)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
reality hurts bec if you truely value and love a special person if they left you or they will gone it really hurt. the thing is you love them as well as you love yourself thats why it hurt if they will left you. we just human being and part of our existence is our emotions thats why we feel what we feel...
@Deane_2005 (1645)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
It's really painful to lost someone especially if that person is attached to you.That's what I've been praying that I do hope he will not get my grandmother yet because it would be very painful for me if he will this time.I know how you feel even her daugther's had accept such possibility but I guess am the only one left who has not accept such reality that soon my grandmother will left me.I guess we are just attached to that person and if he/she leave us it was really painful.