which love is real love??

India
January 16, 2007 10:26am CST
love hapens in many ways..it can happen at first sight..or it may develop gradually..after u hav been in his/her company for long....Which do u think is pure ,unconditional love? wen u see a person and fall 4 him instantly,u have not known anything abt him..his assets and vices..u hav embraced both..welcomed him as he is. If u hav fallen in love wid him after being in his company 4 long..then dont u think u hav jus now made a deal..u hav liked d product and hence taking it home??
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11 responses
@abhi2031 (25)
• India
20 Jan 07
I feel "the love at first sight" is outmoded.... we love something or someone only when we know about them atleast a bit... and the feeling we get at first sight can be called as a crush or infatuation. so I think Love which develops gradually is the true love...
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• India
17 Jan 07
love is goin to b happen just like dat.c when u come across a man just matchin d disposition as if in ur dreams d love sprouts up.when u get aquainted with him,his real virtues may attract u and may strenthen ur love.dis is not a deal but its a check,"is he perfect 4 me?"understanding ur love invigorates ur love!!!!!
@tintusam (1169)
• India
7 Feb 07
real love..happens..wen someone stole..ur smile...ur thoughts...ur dreams.ur heart..ur life...ur soul..ur solitude......without ur knowldge...and u wont knw why u allowed him to steal.....
@dienutza (450)
• Romania
4 Feb 07
real love is when you really like a person when you meet him or she...is when you like his fizical attraction his voice eyes mouth everything...is when you like every single part of his or her body and everything that he sais complete your thoughts...is when he completes you.And when,even when you know his qualities and vices,assets,and even if are bad you still continue to love or like him...i think that in the first time you should try to find your soul when you know some particulary thingsd about him or she and this person wouldn't be a completely stranger for you...
@rohit2703 (201)
• India
22 Jan 07
i think "Love at first sight" is not love its only a attraction,so i prefer the alternate.
• India
20 Jan 07
i think love at first sight in not a true love because we can love each other if his or her qualities must be know to each other then they could be happy and it is known as true love in love at first sight we could not any thing about the other person therefore problems may arise between them this is not a good sign of true love
@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
20 Jan 07
if you can look at this person and can not find a reason for the love you feel, but you just know that you feel it...it's real love. thats because love has no reason, its just something you feel and don't know why.
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
I think love is when he/she drives you crazy but you can't seem to tell her/him how you really feel. You want to know what's your stand in his/her life and if it could ever be more than what you are now. You not only think about how much you love him/her, but why, how much, and mostly thinking if you deserved to be loved by the person.
• India
19 Jan 07
i accept both the ways of falling in love.... some people fall in love at first sight... & some after understanding each other....
@donmikey (70)
• Romania
17 Jan 07
when u meet ur love u meet ur destiny... u don`t have limits... it`s great ! do not scare ! u will go along with ur mate along years and it feels great !
@susanth4u (192)
• India
16 Jan 07
ya wht u said was correct this is better way to love,by knowing them whether he or she suits to you.....,but if u have a feeling tht u want to know abt him then at tht time itself u started loving him.........