fighting makes me sad

United States
January 16, 2007 6:17pm CST
i see my parents arguing and sick of each other, and it makes me want to look less forward to marrying some day
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5 responses
• Pakistan
19 Jan 07
Well it is the story of most of the people of west. thier family system has been destroyed.they should make it once again
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• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks for your response
@mssmith007 (1029)
• United States
17 Jan 07
It's hard to see your parents fighting... I remember my parents fighting constantly in my early childhood. Thankfully, they realized they were not the best for each other and they moved on after 18 years. You should definitely speak up and let your parents know that their arguing is taking a toll on your happiness. Maybe they'll realize the bigger picture and decide to work on things a bit better.
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• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks for your response
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
17 Jan 07
Sorry to hear about your family relationships. My parents aren't usually arguing (actually, I don't know, perhaps they are doing it when I'm not there!). Anyway, I don't believe it should hold you back from getting married. Besides, there are couples who enjoy arguing! Our neighbours, for example. A couple of years ago they started to do it, sitting on my birthday table! My boyfrend sat there, listening, his eyes round like wheels, and afterwards he asked me, how can they talk so to each other. I explained, that it's their usual way to communicate, they have lived happily arguing more than 25 years. Somehow I have the feeling, he doesn't still believe me...
• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks for your response
• India
17 Jan 07
u should take a esson from them and find out what u should not do after marraige. not marrying is not a solution. try understand your parents. help them if u can. when u r looking forward to marry a person spend sometime before and then ge married if he is compatible.
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• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks for your response
• Hyderabad, India
17 Jan 07
Reading the comments makes me very sad
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• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks for your response