Should your bestfriend be your priority among your friends?

@pusiket (1759)
Philippines
January 16, 2007 9:20pm CST
Have you experience wherein your bestfriend deanded to be your priority among your other friends? Is it really the right thing to do or it is a case to case basis?
4 responses
• United States
25 Jan 07
Not really, my best friend would never even think of such treatment. I don't do that, if I push anyway it isn't because she is around, or if she is better than my other friends. I would just keep them away if they were rude & offensive in anyway towards her. Then again I probably wouldn't be friends with the non-bf if they started problems.
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@pusiket (1759)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
This is a kind act of you. Your bestfriend is very lucky to ave you.
@beta_love (451)
• India
23 Jan 07
well if you do such a way then the other friends feel as if they are ignored so when ever we are in a group we are at equal level no matter how best of friends we are
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@pusiket (1759)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Yes, but what I'm trying to say is in all situations. Not only when in the middle of a group.
17 Jan 07
I am assuming you said demanded... What does make one somebodies best friend. I guess the degree of closeness you feel to the person. The fact that you can talk about anything with that person. I for one would think that I have more than one best friend in that way. How can anyone demand priority. You should be spending time as you please. Yes if the friend is really in need then they can be needy and as the saying goes a friend in need is a friend indeed.
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@pusiket (1759)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I agree with you. Those who demanded priority is out of the context of bestfriendshipness.
• Nepal
30 Jan 07
What I assume is that If you give your best friend high priority, other friends take it as an offend towards them and even if some apart your best friend willing to come closer to you, may go apart.So, in this case you may be losing a good friend rather than best friend. So, do not rate best friend high among the friends circle, when in circle.