Can you love two people at the same time

@worthy (2413)
India
January 17, 2007 12:32am CST
Do you agree that a person can be in love with two people at the same time? Do you have more that one girl/boy friend?
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• United States
4 Mar 07
Not if you really and truly love them. You may love certain things about each one, but I think if you really and truly love someone, that is the only person you think about and want to spend time with. Otherwise, my guess is it a form of lust.
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@worthy (2413)
• India
25 Apr 07
Yes,you have a point there.thanks.
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@bluewings (3857)
3 Mar 07
lol The best response certainly deserves it! Okay,I'd be a little more practicle and boring.Yes,it's possible for a person ,irrespective of their gender ,to love more than one.Just to prove my point I'd give ya an example.Let's say a girl had a boyfriend in school and they were close enough.But then the boy's parents change town and the boy has to go along.The relationship suffers due to distance and finally breaks off.Then during college the girl has a soft corner for some handsome hunk and this guy proposes her.Just about when the magic has began,the boyfriend from the past makes an entry the year after and sparks of dormant feelings in his lost love...So, you have two hunks sharing the compartment of her heart now.Now she can't choose coz she adores one and the other one is her first love and childhood sweetheart. Oh why did I type so much,I could have simply done with an 8 letter word-Triangle* Rolling my eyes*lol
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@worthy (2413)
• India
4 Mar 07
Hehehehehe.LMMO.(laugh my mind off)
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@bluewings (3857)
4 Mar 07
lol That's a new one! I had only heard the other till date.Hope this one isn't copyrighted :-P
@worthy (2413)
• India
4 Mar 07
Would like to think it as my copyright, If anyone used it before then its alright; LMAO brings to my mind funny sight, so I changed the description slight. Please don't mind the silly rhyming :-P
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@kiukitsu (291)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I think it is possible. But I think you should avoid it. Because you might get in to a very difficult situation like the time when you have to choose which one of them you really like. When that time comes, it's hard to avoid hurting someone else's feelings.
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@worthy (2413)
• India
25 Apr 07
Okay.Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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• India
3 Mar 07
yes..if you are able to buy gifts for both of your lovers you can love both..you can live long time if you love many amd you are loved by many..but you should satisfy both of them..this is the difficult task..hence you should have guts to love more than one..
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@worthy (2413)
• India
3 Mar 07
Lol.Thats a very original and practical thinking.Thanks.
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@cripfemme (7715)
• United States
3 Mar 07
I was in this situation at one point, although right now I'm single (but that had nothing to do with dating two people at once; it just didn't work out). I was in love with a boy and girl at one point. They both knew. I couldn't have loved either one of them anymore if our relationship was manogomous. I think the key in these situations is honesty.
@worthy (2413)
• India
3 Mar 07
Yes,you rightly said that honesty is must in every relationship.
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• India
3 Mar 07
I would love to believe that its possible to love two people at a time.But the fact is true love happens only once and with one person only.So just for the heck of justifying this we have to name one as infatuation and other as love.Or one as love and other as happiness.I wish some psychologist would explain this!Because in such a situation we do justice neither to the two of our love nor to ourselves and to the relationship too.
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@worthy (2413)
• India
3 Mar 07
I know,it will be very diffcult to handle
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@Bbilal (2000)
17 Jan 07
No, Im not agreed with you, then it will not be love it will just an ifactuation or flirting! I've never loved a girl expect the girl I love in my life, she is my reason to live , the love you're doing is nothing else a time pass, grow don't hurt someone and live your life!
@worthy (2413)
• India
18 Jan 07
That's right.I too don't believe that one can love two people at the same time.It is a question that came to my mind and just wanted know if it is true. Thanks for your response.
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@adidas7878 (2013)
• United States
3 Mar 07
no you cant love two people at the same time, you can love one person and you can cared for the other person alot at the same time but loving two people at the same time it is not real love, it happend to me before with one my ex and i just left her and told her before i leave that she doesnt love me, she love having the idea of being with me
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• United States
6 May 07
I've only really been in love once. There wasn't any room for anyone else for us!
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@worthy (2413)
• India
6 May 07
Thanks for sharing Greenberry.:)
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• Philippines
6 May 07
no.. cause i do believe that love is sacred... that you must not play with it and you should be serious with it.... by the way it's only my personal opinion....
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@worthy (2413)
• India
6 May 07
I believe so too.love is very sacred.
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