What do you do if people leave rude reponse?

@AndreaM76 (1164)
United States
October 5, 2006 7:49am CST
I've had a few responses quite rude, some I can deal with because they are being sincere. I don't feel the need to be rude but if I do let me have how ever I deserve.
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@LovingIt (5398)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I either tell them off in a polite manner, known here in the south as Sutherning them. Such as "Bless your heart, I know you didn't mean to come across that way, but....and end with ...I'll be praying for you". Something of that nature. OR I just ignore them and move on.
16 Oct 06
I'll be praying for you" really annoys most. ;)
@LovingIt (5398)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I know. haha!
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
Great rebuttle! I love it thanks. Ironically, the two rude old people who left responses that were rude actually left advice to ignore rude people. Is that not funny or what? They have no clue. Haha.
@sherinek (3323)
• United States
9 Oct 06
Even I got rude answers and just like you I posted a discussion which got very nice comments. Most of the good people at myLot told me to ignore. So that's what I do now. Also I got to know that you can report such answers by pressing "!" which is near that answer. And you can rate it - (minus). If we do not report, myLot will not know. So dont get disheartened. Enjoy.
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@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
13 Oct 06
I give you best response for this:)
@sherinek (3323)
• United States
16 Oct 06
Thanks AndreaM. I'm sure you are fine now. Let's not allow others to ruin this for us.
@banta78 (4334)
• India
16 Oct 06
Just ignore if you can. But if too distasteful give him apiece of your mind by adding a comment.
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@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
thankyou.
@LadyLeasJ (204)
• United States
13 Oct 06
If it bothers you to the point that you can't ignore them, let loose on them. They did not care about your feelings when they posted the rude remark..think about everything that has ever upset you and use it to write back a post that will burst them into tears.(Yes I know, sounds great doesn't it..but I have never done this either, even though I sooo have want to). Really, I would just ignore it the best that I could. Don't let them have the satisfaction of thinking what they say even matters. Also, try to respond to every post but theirs.
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I know I did by sending amessage to them. Noway was I going to give them points by responding to the discusson or anyothers that was posted by them. I hope I was their only victims...LOl
@acdc0805 (981)
• United States
5 Oct 06
It depends how rude it is. If it really irritates me, i'll report it, lik eif its out of line, and probably add a comment to it as well!
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
12 Oct 06
Thanks for your input sorry it took so long.Have agood day!
@DRoddy77 (1778)
• United States
5 Oct 06
I've only had one rude response left to me so far since joining here. It was an attack on my intelligence personally so I just got the last word in but did it in a very mature and professional manner and then ignored any other responses from that person!
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@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
5 Oct 06
Yes I agree, I wouldn't repsond to them in the discussion i sent a private e-mail to the other. I also use the negative rating feature and if it's legitimate then it decreases their points. tahnks for your response!
@udayhase (173)
• United States
1 Dec 06
Sometimes I look at response and wonder if they even read what they just typed, because even if they meant it lightly, it really was not funny.
@clintz15 (977)
• India
5 Oct 06
just ignore them ......
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
5 Oct 06
This is what I do but I had one old guy be so rude I sent him him an e-mail. I wasn't going to allow him to talk down to me but I wasn't going to give him points for being rude.
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@TDonald (1423)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I agree, just ignore them. Some have nothing to contribute, some are immature, some just want to see if they can push your buttons.
• United States
16 Oct 06
Personally, I would respond to it and see if they meant it the way it came across. Maybe it was something different than you thought. It is easy to misconstrue meanings online when you can only read and don't have a tone to feed off of.
@KrauseHome (35507)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I am still New to this site, and have yet to face this one. But I feel it is Best to always do unto others as they would do unto you. If you move on from it, hopefully they will learn to be more polite in the future.
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
thankya, thankya...welcome aboard.
@tentwo67 (3384)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I wrote back with a snippy little piece of my own mind. I started a threat about negative myLot-ers. And, I reported the person for being mean spirited. And all three of these things made me feel ever so much better!
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
good for you...hope I'm never rude.....LOL
@Miranda (728)
• South Africa
16 Oct 06
I just ignore it and move on, but if it is really offensive I ignore all his/her discussions
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
good point..I do too. I don't want to support someone who is rude.
@psmohan (1883)
• India
16 Oct 06
Do not worry. Ignore. Why do you want to bugger yourself.If one leaves a rude response, do not react. Next time before making rude response he will think twice.
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
thanks so much for the advice:)
@kelz784 (975)
• Australia
9 Oct 06
Just ignore them. Maybe they just have nothing better to do LOL or maybe they are just plain mean.
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
13 Oct 06
mean people suck:(...LOL
@bblessed (1822)
• United States
9 Oct 06
TELL THEM WHAT YOU THINK
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I actually e-mailed one person that I didn't appreciate it and told them next I'd report them.It helped and I was apoligized to.
• United States
9 Oct 06
i would just ignore it
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
sometimes it's hard to blow people off but sometimes it's for the best.
@Jshean20 (14367)
• Canada
9 Oct 06
Just ignore it and move on. No matter where you go, you're gonna come across thoughtless and rude people. Just keep in mind though, that some people may be coming across as rude when really they mean nothing by it.
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
12 Oct 06
Ironically the person who left the last rude response left left me advice....lol thanks for your input sorry it took so long.
@teddymeyn (607)
• India
8 Oct 06
never mind it
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Oct 06
thankya, thankya
@rmuxagirl (7561)
• United States
8 Oct 06
I just ignore them. if it is down right rude I would say so, like if the response is disrespectful to me or anyone else here.
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
13 Oct 06
yea...I know we can rate them and not have to respond.
@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 06
If you do come across that kind of responseded you can always ignore them.
@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
13 Oct 06
it's probally best.
@geevee (888)
• India
13 Dec 06
ya i also face this problem.better If you do come across that kind of responseded you can always ignore them.