How do you say goodbye

United States
January 18, 2007 8:54pm CST
a While ago i was friends with people who werent the best for me. They lied on me, called me names, talked about me behind my back and made me into this person that seemed dishonest and didnt deserve to have ANY friends. But now i have Great friends, some i feel that are the best of friends i could have ever imagined myself having. But my past is still hurting me even after a year later. these 2 friends of mine were ONLY online and phone friends. they had only met once in life. But now one of them is moving closer to the other due to her marrying a guy that I set her up with. Why does it bother me know that they are going to get that chance to build their friendship? Is it me being jealous? how do you say goodbye for the last and final time and really be done? Can it really be that easy?
5 responses
@Mtushar87 (488)
• India
19 Jan 07
simply i will call him or her and tell that person the reason why i dont want any kind of future relationship with that person..
• United States
19 Jan 07
i havent talked to them in OVER a year. we have NO contact but it still bothers me that they are getting close now.
@dihearted (2688)
• India
1 Feb 07
here in china they say chai chan for good bye...
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Best way is to move on with your past and cherished everything you have now.
@jompach (97)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
i dont know much about your situation so i dont think you are being jealous for what happen to their lives. i think letting someone go is not easy specially if you have made a bond with that person and this bond will restrict you from letting go but if you are happy for the good thing that has happen to your friend and maybe it is time to let your friend go for you will be having your own happiness someday just wait for it to come to you. hapiness cannot be found instantly but it is delivered to you simultaneously.
@Garameo (902)
• Germany
22 Jan 07
i have lost many friends in the last ten years. now i´m 30 and i wouldn´t take issue with those friends. i would try to talk about our problem and when this friend doesn´t understand my aspect, he/she have to go.