How do you heal a broken heart?

@anjoks (2084)
Philippines
January 19, 2007 8:32am CST
Whew! I've been figuring that out for the longest time. "Move on and let go", telling that to myself all the time.. There's no way my boyfriend and i can patch things up again, still love him but this is life. U gain some and u lose some. . . I give great advices to my friends in times like these, but how come i'm making a hard time doing these to myself?
3 responses
@Phlamingho (7834)
• Denmark
19 Jan 07
Sorry about that... That stuff really hurts. Unfortuantly there's not really anything to do other than wait out the pain.
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@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
19 Jan 07
it's always easy to say, move on and let go. but it's not that easy. the pain was so difficult to accept. sometimes, i cry a lot for weeks and months. but then, i realize that it's not the end of the world. i believe that my ex wasn't the right person for me and that i will still survive without me. he does not deserve the love i gave him, so , i should start collecting myself again and go on with life. healing takes time. but the best part is that it heals after some time.
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@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
19 Jan 07
it's always easy to say, move on and let go. but it's not that easy. the pain was so difficult to accept. sometimes, i cry a lot for weeks and months. but then, i realize that it's not the end of the world. i believe that my ex wasn't the right person for me and that i will still survive without me. he does not deserve the love i gave him, so , i should start collecting myself again and go on with life. healing takes time. but the best part is that it heals sometime.
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
You are absolutely right about that.. whew, all i have to do right now is to breathe and breathe and breathe till the day comes that i can start anew.