Would you be the one to take care of your mom till her death

United States
October 6, 2006 12:43am CST
Or would you put her in a home.My mom has taken me though some really rough time through my bad drug years from the time I was 13 till 34 and took care me and of my children as I was so mess up for years been clean for 8 years.I'm 42 and have never been without my mom.And I feel as though it's time for me to take care of her for the rest of her life,even if she was to get termenly ill.I would carry her acoss the world to keep her with me I wake to hear her voice,to see her face,and to make me laugh.She is getting sicker by the week and older and I fear everyday she will leave me and what will I do with out her she's been with me for 42 years of my life.My family tells me I have to except that one day she is going to die but I cant do it.
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7 responses
• India
6 Oct 06
hey !!! she is our mom.......she is the one who let u in this world....u just cant break all the connections,love and bond with her ....someday u will realise how lucky u r to have ur mom with u.....
• United States
7 Oct 06
I was not saying I was going to put her in a home I'm taking care of her till her last min.
@MINDY0882 (2304)
• United States
7 Oct 06
I also hope she gets well , what caused her to get ill
• United States
10 Oct 06
She feel ill with phmomuia 3 years agao her body went in to septic shock and internal organs started shouting down.Had a heart attack while in icu found out her heart is really bad cant do by pass.Has a blood condition and she is not strong enough or have any weight on her she is only 105 lbs.Plus she is a diebetic.She still keeps going and I hope for many more years .I had to stop working out in the feild and let my guys work I own my own Painting and contracting service.So I can be here just with her incase something was to happen.
@arijitnit (222)
• India
7 Oct 06
take care of her..
• United States
7 Oct 06
I lost my mother several years ago, she became ill unexpectly. I would give just about anything if I could take are of my mom. My mom was such a special person, she was my best friend I miss her just as much today as I did several years ago when I lost her. No one can tell you that you have to expect that one day she will pass away. I never gave up hope, no matter what anyone said to me. I spent as much time as I could with my MOM and no one was going to stop me.
@MINDY0882 (2304)
• United States
7 Oct 06
yes I would , I think being cared for by a family memeber is better than a nursing home.I love my mom and would do what i could to be there for her after all she gave birth to me , brought me into this world raises me , so yes i would do the same for her
@masbaaz (395)
• India
7 Oct 06
Surely, I would like to have her comapny till last of her breath. I will like to always be with her. She is my mother, my coz ...my key to heaven and I cannot describe what imprtance she has in my life. Mother is mother and no one can take her place. I will always want to keep her with me, till God calls her into heaven.
@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 06
We should take care not only our mother but our father as well and thats for sure.
@acdc0805 (981)
• United States
6 Oct 06
Yes I would definately take care of her, I don't think I would even think twice.