I want to dump my girlfriend. How do I do it politely ?

@44244N (98)
India
January 20, 2007 6:45pm CST
We have been together for the past six months. We have enjoyed each other's company and been relatively good friends. She wants to go to bed with me and I am prepared for that. I want to leave her. Any suggestions.
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6 responses
@cheenlly (3485)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
hmmmm dump isnt sounds good. Its like your refering to a thing that you use and when you dont want it anymore you just throw it away. I dont get you point in there, you havent exactly tell why you should break up on her. YOu dont love her anymore? if it is then you can tell her honestly but nicely that she will not be hurt like dont use the word dump. Tell her about what you feel honestly so that when you parted ways your still be friends and no hurt feelings.
@44244N (98)
• India
23 Jan 07
Its because I am not interested in going to bed with her. I don't like the idea.
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
there's no easy way to break somebody's heart..just be honest with her..and tell it to her the soonest..
@44244N (98)
• India
22 Jan 07
Thnaks
@vdhill (65)
• United States
21 Jan 07
What goes around comes around. Do the right thing and tell this girl it's not working out. Move on, no matter what she says and don't use her body because you can.
@44244N (98)
• India
22 Jan 07
Thanks for the suggestion.
@xXmeganxX (4423)
21 Jan 07
hi, maybe tell your girlfriend that you rushed into a relationship with her quickly and you feel that you aren't ready for it just yet and maybe still be friends together?!
@44244N (98)
• India
21 Jan 07
Thanks. Appears to be reasonable.
@victorwzj (539)
23 Jan 07
There are no easy way or polite way, just tell her that you want to brake up. Say something about our relationship is not going anywhere and it is best if we separated. Take all the blame do not mention anything bad about her. you need to take her feeling in to consideration. There are some "don't" when dumping. Do not dump you girlfriend on the phone, email , sms or similar method. Tell her face to face. She deserved to hear the reason in person since she putting so much love in to the duration when you together . Picking the date to dump your girlfriend is also important. Do not choose the date when it is near valentine, birthday , christmas and any date that the couple usually together. If you still want to be friend with her trust me and take what I saying in to consideration. All the best and good luck
@puma_nz (1002)
• New Zealand
21 Jan 07
Dont sleep with her!! geeee your only playin her if you do that.. Be a man and spare the girl some grief and tell her straight up! Otherwise you are gonna get yourself in deeper sh!te than you thought.. she will never forgive you for not being honest.