Ques. for the guys-What if your patner gets raped--would you still stay w/ her?
January 21, 2007 12:07am CST
My friends and I were talking about this and I really can't find an answer. It surely would hurt isn't it... but hypothetically what do you think of doing if in such a situation?
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26 Jan 07
Damn right I'd still be with her! Anyone who would leave their girlfriend because of this is a loser! A woman doesn't ask to be raped. It is not her fault EVER. This is a crime that starts long before the rape, within the mind of a disturbed man. Nothing has changed with a woman who has been raped. She will need a lot of love to see her through the hard times but ultimately love will prevail and heal. ‹(°¿°)›
27 Jan 07
If a man leave his wife or girl friend just because they have been raped by someone else, then i can assume that the man wasn't that love his other half that much either. When this incident happen, perhaps the man can ask themselves, why did it happen? is it because the man never stay with their girl friend and protect their girl friend enough until there is chances for the morons out there to rape her. The victim is already suffering a nightmare and if their husband or boy friend still leave them at this time, how can they accept such a big hit?
24 Jan 07
If I was the guy, I would still stay with her. Especially after that situation. That's really a nerve-wrecking experience for her. She would need all the help, comfort that she could get. Why would you leave her because of that incident? She didn't even know that it would happen to her. In short, It wasn't her fault.