Chatting to make friends or to find a lover?

Philippines
January 21, 2007 8:07am CST
Lets just be true to ourselves? do you agree that most of the chatters are single and they are just doing this to find a lover? or a friend?
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13 responses
@babyjane (1395)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
well... other's chatting for a lover rather than a friend but mostly chatting for friend.. it depends to a person
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
we have the same thinking! Some people I know are looking for a lover because many asian women right now likes to marry white men, I dont know why! thanks!
• Indonesia
22 Jan 07
I'm seldom to chat with unknown. I chat with my frends from and they add me at my Yahoo msg I chat only with people that I know before and my purpose is looking for a friends. I never trust internet love
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Good for you. Do not trust internet lover because you might end crying if you try to fall in love with the guy.
@shooie (4988)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I chat because it is fun and is the way I keep in touch with my family that lives in California. As far as looking for a lover online nope. There is no problem with making friends online.
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• Philippines
21 Jan 07
well definitely there is no problem in making friends online or chatting just to find a lover. Its fun knowing someone met her loveones thru chatting, imagine how great God uSe a 'medium by texting' just to let them meet each other. And make them happy all their lives.
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
Just to meet people from other part of the world is a good reason why people finds time to chat. I agree some use it to look for prospective dates.
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• Philippines
21 Jan 07
yeah your right! Finding a friends around the world is really great feeling and experiences. We can have someone to talk to and ask their advice if we wanted. But we cant force ourselves to fell love to that person even we are apart we still find way to see each other. The reason why I said early in my discussion, in the end they find their love
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Yes, I agree with you. Most chatters are single and they are there to find a friend and if they are lucky enough they'll find a lover. I personally do chat, I am single and loves meeting and talking to people. But of course I am very cautious and I like to chat to those talking with sense and with a heart.
@tintusam (1169)
• India
29 Jan 07
well i chats to find new friends. it is because i have a girl friend.
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@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
as for my self i go on chatting with my friends but if some one ask me to become their friends i always ignore it i kinda don't trust most chatters especially when i view their profile, but infairness to those chatters that really asked to become my friends they are nice and sometimes they have sense of humor and i can detect seriousness.
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@Serjas (2328)
• India
21 Jan 07
21 tips to be lovable ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. FOUR.! When you say, "I love you," mean it. FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. SEVEN. Believe in love at first! sight. EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much. NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives. TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer,smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions. EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.!
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@istanto (8572)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 07
I chatting just for fun actually, killing my free time and I do chat when I get bored. find lover? no.. I have a girlfriend and no need to find more hehe.
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
i agree some of them are single, some are looking to fine a lover. just being friends to start the conversation and later on they became lover...
@jalalnp (403)
• India
31 Jan 07
In my view most of them are chatting for a time pass.
• Nigeria
31 Jan 07
i guess to find love and most are single i m single and i do chatt all to find love
@XxAngelxX (2833)
• Canada
30 Jan 07
No I disagree. I think most chatters are just trying to make other friends who share the same interests as themselves. I think just as many are single as are married.