What should I do?

Ireland
January 21, 2007 2:10pm CST
I'm 36 years old and have almost completed a college course in Tourism. I am now considering studying as a professional chef. This will take me two years, or I can opt for a three year course and specialise in the third year. I will then be almost 40 years old. I could go back to work now but at the moment there is no urgency. My husband earns enough for us to live comfortably for a while. I have no professional qualifications at the moment so would only qualify for a job with the minimum wage. However, if I study and am successful as a chef I could earn up to 70,000 euros a year, or open my own business. What do you think?
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@design (849)
• Ireland
21 Jan 07
Go for it. You have nothing to lose, I hope to go back to collage in 2 yrs, I'll 30 ish going back. My mother went back at 40 and it was the best thing she did, she has agreat career now. Now granted she did our heads in while she was studying. lol
• Ireland
21 Jan 07
Thank you. Your mother should be very proud of herself. Learning gets so much tougher the older you get. Good luck in college when you decide to go back.
@design (849)
• Ireland
21 Jan 07
as my mum says " it gets tougher but on the other hand she had less responsibilities at home as we were old enough to look after ourselves, and those who weren't were able to occupy them selves while she studied.
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• Ireland
21 Jan 07
Well I hope my two daughters will be able to get on with their work while I get on with mine, although I have to say they've been very good so far. We all do our homework together in the evenings. :)
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
21 Jan 07
You need to do what feels right to you. The neat thing you have is the Tourism knowledge and if you go for the chef work then you could combine the two and have perhaps a good start for a business. Your age may be a factor to consider if older citizens have a harder time getting jobs there. Then your own business may just be the thing. Whatever you do, good luck my friend!
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Hope all goes your way. You will do fine. Will pray that life smiles upon you!!!
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• Ireland
21 Jan 07
Yes, the difficulty could be getting work at that age. I think, ideally, I'd want to be gearing myself up for my own business.
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• United States
21 Jan 07
Well, if there's no need for you to bust your hump working for minimum wage, I say go for the culinary education. Weigh the pros & cons...70k for 3 more years of school? Go for it!!!
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• Ireland
21 Jan 07
Thanks visitor. At least I'd be able to cook after it too. :D
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@Kscott (634)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I definately think if you can continue with chef school, then do it as long as theres no real need for you to go to work. Who cares how old you'll be, the fact that you are actively pursuing a good career....that is great....and if you have a chance to make 70,000 a year....GO FOR IT. Plus you have the chance to open your own business eventually....Stick with the school while you can.....I wish I could go back to school, but I need to go to work instead of being home with the kids because of our financial situation....I'd like to pursue a career instead of a minimum wage job.....GOOD LUCK...your already on the right track.!
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
Thanks Kscott, I know, I should count my blessings that at least I have the choice to be able to do this. A few years ago it was a different story and I didn't have this chance.
@babykay (2131)
• Ireland
21 Jan 07
Are you really interested in cooking as a hobby and for this reason want to become a chef? If it really is your dream then you have to follow it. But if you want to get into a career that will make you financially independent as well as be in something you like, I would pick a field that would involve less late nights and more free time when you get to practice. It all depends on where your strengths lie. Do you feel you are academic? If so do a correspondence college course in your favourite subject and eventually teach. Just a suggestion. When you are finished the tourism course, if you have enjoyed it and done well. you could go further and eventually teach, you don't necessarily have to work in the area. You are lucky that your husband earns enough to support you and him comfortably. If you have a real longing to be a chef then this is the course you must take but if you want a career but are not sure in what, I can think of easier careers. Good luck in whatever your decision is.
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• Ireland
21 Jan 07
I don't think I'm particularly academic, although I've done quite well in my present course. I don't have the patience for teaching or I would be teaching music. It's only lately I've developed this interest in cookery as this was one of the subjects I've studied for the Tourism course. Thanks for the advice and kind wishes.
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@ma_belle (1357)
• United States
1 Feb 07
go for it...if you have the financial means to go back to school, then do it. i think it would be wonderful to study to be a professional chef. Its definitly something I would love to do one day if I'm financially able to do it.
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• Ireland
1 Feb 07
Thank you all for the supportive replies and good advice. I have applied for the course now and hope I'm successful. I also looked into getting some work experience in this sort of work.
6 Feb 07
Wicked! Hope you enjoy it! Good luck with the course! XD
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 07
I say if you have the Opurtinity to do it then do it I know I would so go for it Girl If you enjoy it then why not and they say Life starts at 40 in my case well I will say I think mine slowed down at 40 lol that is when it all happened Seriously if you enjoy it go for it Girl
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 07
Yes it would and I have every Confident you you will do it
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• Ireland
21 Jan 07
Yes, I do enjoy it, just not very confident. But I suppose that would improve in time, or at least I hope it would.
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• Nigeria
22 Jan 07
I will sugest you first finish what you are doing and then go the chef stuff.Age I think does not matter when it comes to education because learning is a continous thing in life.I'll advice you to go for it fi you feel you have a flare for cooking and if not don't go for it.
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22 Jan 07
I agree finish the tourism course because you are almost there. Then when its completed go for your dream and learn to be a chef and why not! Your never too old to learn and you never know, when you own your own restaraunt and chain :D you will find that tourism degree very handy :D Good luck may your wishes and dreams reach fruition. Bright Blessings.
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@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
22 Jan 07
You need to do what is going to make you happy. Make a list of the pros and cons of each. Which profession will make you feel fulfilled and satisfied with your life. You probably already know in your heart which you want to do. With such a supportive and financially stable husband, the sky's the limit! Have you talked to him about your conflicted feelings? His input, encouragement, and "permission" to follow your dreams may be just what you need.
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I have read some of the other posts now and agree that you should finish the Tourism course before you start the chef courses. What if you don't like the chef stuff? Then you will have the tourism to fall back on. Or could you take both courses at the same time?
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
Hi Trace. The tourism course ends in May. The chef course doesn't start till October. I've spoken to my husband about this and he's been very supportive. He just wants me to do what will make me happy. :)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I say go for the chef job. I'd much rather earn up to 70,000 a year even if I had to go back to school for a few years. I have a friend that went to the culinary arts school and she cooks such yummy food. She can do all sorts of stuff with food.
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
I'd love to be able to do fantastic things with food. Even if I never used the course for setting up my own business, at least it would be advantageous for my own use.
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
21 Jan 07
If you can afford it then put the time in now and reap the benefits in a couple of years. I am in the same position as you having taught myself website design during my time as a stay at home dad, but need that college paperwork to actually be able to set foot back in the workplace. I'll be going back to school full time for a minimum of 2 years and I am 39 right now....good luck with whatever you decide.
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
Good luck with the web design. I tried to learn a bit over the last couple of years and would like to do a part time course in it at some stage. It's a great thing to have.
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
Whatever you think fits you best.. go on with it. I salute you for your continuous study despite your age. If you think you'll succeed and will be happier if you finish you r chef career, then go on. Its only you who can decide whats best for you. If you have the courage in finishing your choosen career, then go on. Never stop reaching for all better possibilities. You have a great plan. Aim high and best of luck.
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
LOL Deb's place. I was wondering about that myself. Thank you all the same cyndhirella.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
22 Jan 07
Despite her age...I am hurt, I am 53 and thinking of starting nursing school this summer. She is young, give me a break.
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1 Feb 07
I think you already know what to do, the fact that you've researched the courses shows that it's something that your definately interested in. I'd advise you to go for it! If it's your dream and your committed to it then you'll certainly be successful, and if you start the course and then decide that it isn't for you then you haven't lost anything and you'll have learnt a few things along the way. So go for it, you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. Good luck!
• Ireland
1 Feb 07
Thanks butterflygirl. :)
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
22 Jan 07
Most travel agents seem to be be quite underpaid. The economy takes a down turn, less vacations mean less income for you. You are still pretty young. I would definitely go for the Professional chef. I would go with the 3 year program and if I could i would specialize in healthy cooking. I think a goutmet restaurant where all food is healthy would be a wonderful thing. I hate going to restaurants where the menu has 3 little red hearts. It is like a punishment. I would love to go somewhere where I can eat whatever I want that is on the menu. I have often thought if I was younger, I would like to home a deli like place, you know like by a train station, where people could come in the morning and buy a healthy breakfast and order nice healthy gourmet meal to take home with them on the way back to serve for dinner. I know it is a dream I have, but follow your dream.
• Ireland
24 Jan 07
Thank you for that Debs. I hope your dream happens for you some day.
@manodogs (415)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I really think you should go for it, since you have the chance! You never know what the future may bring, so there's a chance you won't finish the entire course -- you might have to move, you might have to go back to work, who knows what could happen? -- but you definitely won't finish it if you don't give it a shot! And your dual skills in both tourism and cuisine would definitely serve you well as an entrepreneur! Just imagine being able to spend your "golden years" running your own restaurant/tourist trap! Not a bad future.
• Ireland
24 Jan 07
It would be great! Just hope I'd be able to stick all that study for long enough.
• Ireland
21 Jan 07
If I thought I could earn so much money, I would definitely go for it. Two years is not such a very long time. Just think, if you were able to start your own business, you would have people working for you, so you could still take time off when you needed to spend more time with your family or for any other occasion. I sounds like a very rewarding job, and if it was me, I would make the most of the opportunity. Even if at the end of it, you decide it is not for you, you will have gained the knowledge. Best of luck and I hope you make the right dicision.
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
You're right. Two years will fly by, just like the last one did. And I have always wanted to own my own business, especially a little cafe or bistro bar.
@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I would say go for it. Obviously it interests you, so why not. If you can afford to continue your studies then I think that's the best way to go. Even if you don't do much with it, and don't start your own business. You will at least have a more knowledge in the cooking field. By the time you finish the course, you may have found some great friends and all kinds of opportunities may arise from it. I say anytime there is an opportunity to further your education..go for it. Good luck with whatever you decide.
• Ireland
24 Jan 07
mari, you're so right. It would be a great opportunity for friends too and to ease myself back out of housewife mode. :)
@AskAlly (3625)
• Canada
21 Jan 07
This is easy......You can be 40 and be a chef OR you can be 40 and wish you were a chef. It sounds like you are able to do this financially, so why not? You go girl!!!!!!
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
Nice way of putting it. LOL! :)
@Evacuee (1147)
21 Jan 07
Well I think you should take the opportunity if you are in the position to do so. But do not run away with the idea that being a chef is what you see on TV. Its bloody exasperating and hard work at times. I speak from experience having had a restaurant for 5 years. I loved it really but the frustrations with other people mainly staff, at times was almost unbearable. Mind you I am a hard taskmaster and have high expectations from fellow workers. However on the other hand I used to pay well and would never ask anyone to do what I was not prepared to do myself. But I would not put anyone off what they would do in their life so go on jump in with both feet! And the very best of luck.
• Ireland
24 Jan 07
If I had my own business I think that I too would also be a hard taskmaster. I think you need to be if you're in business and serious about it. And I would also believe in paying well to good staff. After all, if you pay peanuts......
@Jolting (30)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I wish I didn't have to worry about money. If I were you I'd become an artist. I play guitar, but I study computer science at college. Somehow the pressure of turning music into a career for me doesn't sound that fun.
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• Ireland
24 Jan 07
An artist? I'm no good at art, and I've no interest in it either.