I feel pain in my heart when I get hurt? Is it common?

I used to be a lot more sensitive to that kind of thing. I've had to grow a really thick skin, because otherwise I'd spend all my time feeling bad. And in all honesty, I don't think people do a lot of stuff on purpose. I think it's not really always about me.

There was a time when I used to get hurt and feel exactly the way you are saying. Now I have moved beyond that and risen above all such feelings by positive thinking. Now I create my own environment around me, there is not a single soul that can hurt me. You know thinking is creative, send positive thoughts around and you will receive the same. If you want everything pleasant around you then think like that and you will observe that things start happening as you want. so be positive and live positively.

If I say somethimg when I'm mad I mean every word. sometimes people can be so rude. and so to get it off my chance, I half to get right back on them.

I think it is part of Life and this is lovely worded well done We say things and don't really mean them and regret later but we get over the Hurt eventually When I have been hurt I withdraw for a while I go very quiet and I try to mend my heart and eventually it does mend after some time but it takes time amnd sometimes a long time Thank you for this lovely discussion

I beleive in 'do unto others as you would have them do unto you'. I really try not to hurt peoples feelings, as it is so unnecessary and there is enough hatred and violence in the world as it is. When we feel hurt because of what someone has said to us, it is best to think about it for a while, think why they said that, and then try and let it go. Sometimes easier said than done. But try not to let it get you down too much. All the best.

Dont take it badly. Take it as a challenge! Be a possibilatarian. Anyone can says you "suck", who cares as long as your doing the right thing and your not hurting anybody, you accomplished something already. "Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit." - Napoleon Hill

hi ajith! nice to hear u and it seems to be you aare very kind to others-sometimes i too feel like that,as a brother is a doctor ,he says that it is extra stimulus caused one impulse cross the particular limit! so nothing to worry,o.k! no life is without pain friend! take care!

This is completely natural ajithlal. Even I feel the same when I am in pain. (Gosh it rhymed!) Anyway, you have a lot of questions. Yes, everybody, someday or the other, might feel pain in their lives. I had it in a number of times. One thing I'll tell you, you cannot erase it just like that. Time is the best medicine in my view. Time heals the worst wounds in heart and mind. But there is a hitch, even the pain lessens with time, the scar is always their. Your question, why do people hurt us, is impossible to answer. People will hurt you, intentionally or unintentionally, all the time, I think because, nobody will act according to our wish all the time. So we get hurt! Sometimes others get hurt with our words or deeds cos we dont think twice of what we do or say. So, be careful and think twice or more than that before taking action, when others are involved. Take care and have a great day.