Honeymoon after marriage

@siddhinfo (1500)
India
January 23, 2007 12:23am CST
Do you think people should go for honeymoon after marriage? Or they can start their life without going to honeymoon?
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
23 Jan 07
Yes, there is nothing wrong in going for honeymoon few days after marriage. There are people go after 15 days or so.There are so many who never make it. It is nothing but a place where 2 people spend their time alone without interference of anyone.
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@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
24 Jan 07
Yes I agree with you and many couple do go through this
• Portugal
24 Jan 07
I also agree :)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Don't miss the honeymoon! That was the best part of getting married and if I did it again I would invest more in a longer honeymoon and less in the wedding
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@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
30 Jan 07
Yes honeymoon should never missed. If anyone missed it then he will think it over in his life when heard about other people honeymoon stories
@Bhutto (741)
• India
24 Jan 07
i think you should because marriages happens only once,even if you get married for the 2nd time the joy of first will never come and circumstances may be different at that time.So i prefer it is better to go on a honeymoon.
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@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
29 Jan 07
Yes I do agree with you marriage become once in life time and honeymoon too comes once in a lifetime.
@rhie0216 (289)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
i think a couple who got married should have their honeymoon right after their marriage in that way they would have a close binding between them and shyness would be overcome. this is the best way to be at ease with the person you married.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
29 Jan 07
Yes the best time for honeymoon is just after the marriage and one should go for it.
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
Its nice to have honeymoon after marriage so you have all the time with you!!!Its a great feeling and intimacy!!!You need to have like 1 to 2 weeks!!!Hahahaha!!!No sleep,no rest!!!Just eat,pooh & pee is the rest times!!!Can you handle it???
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
29 Jan 07
Yes it is real real fun during honeymoon. Just eat eat, sleep make love love be in arm with each other take all action possible on bed, bathroom and whereever time permits. I have done so, have you done it.
@fady83 (617)
• Egypt
26 Jan 07
i think honeymoon is best days of the two couples because at this time they be closed to each other at the front of all people
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@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
29 Jan 07
Yes this the time to come close to new soul and share their experince. Good to be alone
• India
23 Jan 07
it depends. i dont find anything wrong in starting a new life with some fun that you can remember whole of your life. its a beautiful moment to start life and generally after marraige where we have so many relatives around both girl and boy dont get much time to spend. but by going to honeymoon they will get some extra time.
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@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
24 Jan 07
Yes honeymoon means some fun in life but you don't know many a time this fun will bring enjoyment to you in form of new member in your family. But to some honeymoon is dark sided also. Why? Many reasons behind it.
@ramkihbk (292)
• India
23 Jan 07
hai siddhinfo its important in every ones life to relax mind 24 hours working difficult one so these kind of honeymoon are enjoyable in every ones life
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
26 Jan 07
Yes you are right once we are at our routine work it is impossible. So get it when it hot and raw.
• United States
23 Jan 07
In my opinion a honeymoon is a good thing to take, but not required. Due to finances my husband and I did not have a very extensive honeymoon. We camped one night at a local lake, and that was about it. However, since we both like it simple, I don't think either one of us would have had it any other way. Either way I think people should be careful in choosing their destination, so that it provides them plenty of time to be together, free from outside distractions.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
24 Jan 07
You are right honeymoon means extra expense and if you do saving right now then this money can be used for some important purchases to set up the married life.
• India
23 Jan 07
Yes, people should go for honeymoon after marriage. b'coz there is nobody to disturb us and spend a lot of time with each other. they understand each other easily. they share their feeling each other. so I think it is necessary to go to honeymoon after marriage.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
25 Jan 07
Yes I do agree with you even I have gone for my honeymoon after married. It is remarkable and rembering for life.
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
If they can afford it well and good, honeymoon is a great way to know each partner more deeper without the hassle of work, and other interference. It is a chance to relax set goals to thier new life, plan for the future and talk about anything inside the marriage.
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@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
24 Jan 07
You are right, to go for honeymoon means spending extra money. It is already the big money is spend for getting married. But if they are in a position to spend some extra then they can go to honeymoon and enjoy themself.
• Canada
23 Jan 07
I didn't understand the value of the honeymoon until after I was married. What I found was, from the moment we said our vows, I wanted to just stare into my now-husband's eyes and do nothing else ... I wanted some time to just enjoy the amazing thing we just did together. We didn't go out of town, but we did take a weekend 'away' from our usual things (work, classes, etc) and just hang out together, and bask in being the new Mr and Mrs. It was really special to have that time together. Alos, after all the hussle and stress of the last minute preparations for the wedding, it can be nice to have a couple days with no expectations. So ... some time together to enjpy being married - yah - dos that qualify as the traditional honeymoon? I dunno.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
25 Jan 07
Get married fast and you will come to know what the honeymoon is. Have a patient if you have boyfriend until you get married to him.
• India
23 Jan 07
honeymoon the word itself is an amazing. it brings a naughty smile on our face. ok first of all we all think of this day some time or other. we all live up to ,in side a corner of our heart to have a best day of our life. honeymoon being one of them, now when u ask about the timing then i don't think so it is a rule to go for a honeymoon. but yes after marriage it is the best time to go away from the world and spend some beautiful moments with your life patner
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
24 Jan 07
I too have the same feeling when I went for my honeymoon. We were arranged marriage and our love started only after marriage. It is must to have honeymoon
• India
23 Jan 07
hi, i think its a very good idea to go on a honeymoon right after marriage because it gives the couple ample time to understand each other in person without having to bother about the presence of oter people. newly weds can get really awkward and shy in front of relatives or friends so its always better that they get comfortable with each other befor ecoming out together in public. mostly its difficult for the girls to accustom themselves in a new surrounding so if they are comfortable with their spouse it helps them to ease
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
24 Jan 07
Yes honeymoon means bringing two unknown people(Arranged Marriage) together to know each other, so that their married life goes smoothly.
• United States
30 Jan 07
I think it all depends on the couple. I think its a small luxury that couples should take. But if they don't, then that's a personal choice.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
5 Feb 07
Yes it is newly couple should decide about it. But I suggest they should go for it
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
It's advisable to go into a honeymoon after the wedding because it's a chance for you and your spouse to get to know each other deeply. To be able to enjoy each other's company without interferance. It's the start of your marriage so try to make it as pleasant and as memorable as it can be. So that when hard time comes, you have something to remember by and try to re-live the experience :)
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
5 Feb 07
To start happy married life both partner should know each other closely. And it is the honeymoon period that helps the partner to know each other better and understand.
• United States
30 Jan 07
i didnt have a honeymoon. of course that was because we couldnt afford one. but we started off just fine without a honeymoon.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
5 Feb 07
Good that you have started your life without honey moon
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
5 Feb 07
Honeymoon is like running. Not going on it is like loosing the start. If you loose the start you might loose the finish.
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
5 Feb 07
Sorry about that ! My bad ...that double post.
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
4 Feb 07
I think that honeymoon could be a very romantic experience, and so I think it would be a good idea to go for honeymoon after marriage. But if it isn't possible (no money, no time because of the work, etc.) it doesn't matter, the marriage will be a good marriage the same.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
5 Feb 07
With such situation you may avoid going to honeymoon. You can have great life having togetherness with your partner.
• Italy
5 Feb 07
Wow Siddhinfo, you are really right. Hi
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
It was a tradition that honeymoon after marriage is done, so maybe after all i am not yet marriage and i dont have a plan yet to be. For the second thought they can start their life without going to... how if they dont have a money to go for a honeymoon so they start a life for a reason.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
30 Jan 07
Get married fast and go for the honeymoon, you will come to know what the honeymoon is