Girls what do you do when this happens to you?And guys why do you do this?

eve teasing - Problems women face in the world.
@berry9 (590)
India
January 23, 2007 2:54am CST
Atleast once in our lives we would have seen or experienced this situation.In between a crowd or in bus or in a shopping complex or even temples and churches.Some guys they are too sick. They always try to touch the girl when she is not noticing. We just cant tolerate this. Sometimes when we are in such a confused and tensed situation like we are alone in a train or bus or rushing to an examination or so,someone standing behind us and indulging in this sick disgusting habit of passing their hands to pinch us or disturb by touching us. Iv seen it happen in a temple even.My friend and I were there and we saw this guy stretching his hand on the girls back and spank.she was i think just 13 or 14.it was too unforgivable. Girls what would you do? And guys.......................answer me
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@judyt00 (3504)
• Canada
23 Jan 07
I think I would probably shout out and turn to the man behind me and slap his filthy face, If I saw it happen I would speak out and point to the man and Ssay that man just assaulted that little girl." even if it was in atemple or church. when a man gets away with that, he just gets bolder and next will hurt someone's daughter or sister.
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@berry9 (590)
• India
23 Jan 07
we must get him the punishment he deserves.
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@kpisgod (994)
• India
23 Jan 07
If I saw it happen I would speak out and point to the man and Ssay that man just assaulted that little girl. I have seen the reaction to it...the man usually will call all the swear words u dont want to hear.In most cases the victim says nthing happene and the accusing lady will be then in deep trouble
@acosjo (1904)
• Canada
23 Jan 07
Kick'em in the balls!
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@limo_2005 (258)
• India
23 Jan 07
I guess you've met most of the perverted guys out there eh? It makes me sick listening to this. such behavior is totally unacceptable. when i look at some beautiful girl i glance at her and appreciate her beauty - cant help it as i'm a guy, but touching and all is too much. I have never come across such perverts in my life. good for them, coz if they do they're gonna have some fists rock all over their faces.
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
The truth is, we must understand that such a kind of an attitude do really exist. So just beware of him, or give em a slap on his face to make him realize his disrespect. So you guys, instead of touching this beautiful lady in here, why not give 'er a flower.... say hi! im mike.. how are u? you're beautiful indeed! lol
• India
24 Jan 07
it has happened to me also several time. once i was going for an exam in a bus where one guy pinched me from behind. i daredto turn around and slap him, i did this because i knew i have lot of my friends in the same bus and will come for my rescue. i generally shout at the guy back. i have seen when girls are of shy nature they just keep quit and move ahead. this is sick but i feel guys have this habit. hope by reading this many guys who do this or have done this will feel bad and ashamed.
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@berry9 (590)
• India
24 Jan 07
for that only i put a discussion like this.
@roadromeo (376)
• India
23 Jan 07
well i am man and i have seen these things going on in front of me and trust me berry I just hate it and can't even tolerate this happening and when it is done in front of your bare eyes.Honestly, i like girls a lot like a normal man would do but i would not dare touch a girl conciously even if i know her well. During eve-teasing which I see the most as i constatly manage lots of events i have got into a number of fights with such kind of people and I have made it a point to punisg these guys hard with the help of the public around. Many a times i have injured myself as public is not everywhere. Your topic has bought a lot of different scenes which i have seen girls suffering through and i can't bear the fact that most of the girls are helpless and can't do anything rather than just ignoring the situation and moving forward. I believe that its just a man's natural tendency to do such kind of filthy thing but then we have to live with it as there are not all good people in this world. I would just pray to God that he gives me enough of strenght to fight HARD with such kind of people if i find them anywhere....lol
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@berry9 (590)
• India
23 Jan 07
nice of you to have supported this topic.continue helping anybody that you find suffering some guys dont realise im sure they will when their girlfriend is harrassed infront of their eyes like this.
@destroyer (785)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
i do admit there are sickos like you described out there but berry you are generalizing! I think whenever encountered with such a situation the girl shouldnt keep quiet, she should slap the guy senseless or if there are other people around shout and get their attention! another way to thwart these kinds of approaches would be to carry MACE spray! one generous spray in the eyes and the lecherous sum bag is bound to be incapacitated!
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• India
24 Jan 07
ya thinks happens many time...........i m a guy n i have seen other guys do this stuff........but many giys dnt do it ...i have always seen that boys who have got real sisters the dnt tend to do it...coz they realize that....thier sis will also go sumtimes somwhere.....but biys who dnt have respect for thier mothers also...they do all this stuff...but for that girls to have to get brave n face the situation........n respond that guy or any guy around her witha tight slap or with a shoe...if any thing hapens like this
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• Australia
24 Jan 07
I will move away from that guy.. as I dont like to make a scene.. I know the right thing to do will be to confront him but I guess it will embarasss me too if others know.. so I will move away from him and if I was with friends or something I will let them know so that they can watch out as well... I dont know why guys do it.. im also sad to think that people can take advantage like that.. we girls dont take advantage of you.. so why are you doing that to us?
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@wmg2006 (5383)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I am almost sure my quick reflexes would have me slapping someone without thinking. I have had it happen to me when I was younger and I am ashamed to say this person wore my hand print for some time. It is a reflex and I guess a defense mechanism. I slap much harder than most people punch, so if guys want to be slapped then they take a chance doing this. You never what the other person will do.
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@naman95 (1554)
• India
23 Jan 07
This is the work of people who are sick in their mind and these people should be beaten in public.
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• India
23 Jan 07
you know... its really very hard for any one, who watches such incident, to react to it. i mean what can a third person standing far away , not knowing any of the peoples involved, can make any approaches to the matter. i have not been in such a situation before so cant really understand what wwould i do to stop such things. well i really dont undertsnd how can some guys be so cheap. i m a guy too and i dont think doing anything like that should make you feel proud. Well dont have any answers for this but i can just say that not all guys are like that.
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@apsara60 (6612)
• Israel
23 Jan 07
For girls, I think it is better to ignore such people, because your response will either attract crowd, who will not help but only enjoy. or may be it will lead to enenimity, which will lead to revenge, which may result into more disasters. For such shameless boys, all that I can say is they are getting cursed by girls whom they are harrasing, and they will be punished by God in someway or other.
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@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I would go to whoever I had to go to and try to get it stopped. Some men think it is ok to do that to women but it invades the girls space and invades upon her body. they need to keep their hands to themselves. It is not cute and it is not macho and it does not make a girl want to be with you. It is disgusting if the girl does not want you to touch her at all.
@vbcoder (196)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
please don't generalize, not every guy does what you are saying. i know its really disgusting to see a guy doing what you are saying, but there are guys that respect women and despises such vulgar acts.
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@sunilm (111)
• India
23 Jan 07
just give me him on his face.
• India
23 Jan 07
its better to carry a pin or compass with u ,where ever u go. if any stupid things happens just poke them hardly at their sensitive areas . i think that only helps us
@dmajkc (196)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Some people are just perverts I guess. If someone would scream outloud and say something, it may keep them from doing it again. The unwelcome attention would hopefully make them go away.
@nilzerous1 (2435)
• India
23 Jan 07
For the guys , it is their basic instinct and inability to have a control over it, which forces them to do so. Many of my friends started to do it during their early teens as a matter of curiosity and finally got so much addicted that they just can't resist themselves even when they are matured enough to understand that there is no real pleasure in disturbing anyone standing in the street or railway station alone. And for the girls- not all the girls are like you who put up a strong resistance to all this indecent act. I've seen atleast few girls who rather love to be touched. I'm extremely sorry to say that but believe me it is a fact. It makes the problem more complicated. For you I'll suggest you to react strongly based on your own natural feelings. As you appear to be very sensitive to this issue, so, you can shout at the person at the first instance and give him a big slap.
@berry9 (590)
• India
23 Jan 07
i cant beleive you justify this.if your friend touched your girlfriend would you still say this?my friend this is too cheap.
@umair2hot (1220)
• India
23 Jan 07
Well nilzerous saying rite...well if any one will with our girl friend then i will kick him...but if any one doing this with you so behave strctly and if guyz doing this or trying to touched so slap on his face and shout then what will happen !
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
what do you mean by saying "touch the girl when she is not noticing"? Well, I have to admit that I did "tap" some of the girls on their shoulder when they dont notice.... But I only do that to girls that I know (of course)... I just want to tease them, make them guess who Iam, that's all... nothing more, just want to tease them! I dont think there's anything wrong with that.... What do you guys think?
• Australia
24 Jan 07
I think it is not that kind of tapping that makes the problem.. but what;s discussed is that kind of touching that makes girl uncomfortable.. u know something bad like that..
• India
23 Jan 07
Well eve teasing is really a sick thing . I am the one who is totally agst such things. The boys who do such things are really sick but I do not bleame them totally. I feel that boys are not responsible alone. The way the girls dress nowadays is totally seducive and sometimes even the sanest guy is tempted.
@berry9 (590)
• India
24 Jan 07
great!i love you.
@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
23 Jan 07
i experienced this once. we were watching a mall show by some singers. it was too crowded and obviously, men intentionally had their hands touch me. it was so obvious that i looked at them and gave them a mad look. my friend and i went out from that big crowd hating the men around. it was so disgusting!
@berry9 (590)
• India
23 Jan 07
it is too much to tolerate.I can understand that.You must ask him to go do it with his family members.
@sam085 (41)
• India
23 Jan 07
hey chill all guys are not as bad as you think.i know it pisses you girls off big time.ya i agree with you.you can feel terrible when something like that happens.even though i am not a girl i feel i can give a nice solution to what you have asked.CARRY A BALL PIN ALONG WITH YOU,ALWAYS!if u notice someone doing mischevous with you,use the ball pin!i am not asking you to poke that person with that;just place that in between!i bet it works. as far as your 2nd question concerns,i cannot answer that coz i am not that kind of person and i aint know the reason why that segment of guys do that.
@berry9 (590)
• India
23 Jan 07
did I even say that every guys are like that?not the ones who dont.im talking about those who indulge in such activities.
@umair2hot (1220)
• India
23 Jan 07
Well i will see that any one doing this i'll say him that or may b i fight with them not may i must fight or or or or i'll kick them from tha bus huh well these things are'nt good...well u r alone i cant do nothing lolzz...well if any one try to do this then give tight slape on her face and shout then c what will happen.....or behave strictly if boyz come in to the bus then don't c their faces or try to c them..or any action like seeing or else just sit try to sit with 2 or 3 friends ! It is a good way and also slape is a good way !
@umair2hot (1220)
• India
23 Jan 07
on their face*