Whom do you trust most and why ?

@SimplyJo (1694)
India
January 23, 2007 11:01am CST
Friends, spouse/bf,gf, family, siblings, relatives or pets - whom do you trust most and why ? For me its my family (my folks) whom i trust most for the simple reason that they have trusted me for over 24 yrs now and i knw they would never do anything to harm me intentionally.
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@wolfie34 (26881)
• United Kingdom
18 Feb 07
The person I trust the most is my family, my mum and dad who have always been there for me, and who will tell me the truth whatever, they have never hidden anything from me and if I ask for their advice they will give it to me either way. They won't beat around the bush either, they have obvioulsy known me all my life so they know me better than myself. I trust them both 110% and I always will.
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@babyhar (1339)
• Canada
28 Jan 07
I believe the person I trust the most would have to be myself! I find that sometimes putting to much trust in anyone else but yourself can just lead to someone asking for trouble! Therefore I do trust myself more than anyone.. But if I am to trust people, it has to be someone who has been there for me since day one. And those two people that I would have to pick would be my other half, but also our dog! I trust these two people because they have been there for me each step of the way. When everyone else didn't have faith in me, or wasn't there to listen or to support me.. There the two of them we're willing to hold my hand whenever I was going through a rough time in my life. I haven't had a lot of people stand by me like these two have. I've been able to confide in them some pretty deep, yet dark secrets & they haven't once gone out & told another person. Not like our dog could do so, but my other half could go ahead & betray my trust if he had wanted to.. But he hasn't, instead he has always kept what we have talked about.. Between the two of us! I as well like how I am able to be myself around these people. I know that if I am being myself that they are unlike most people who.. Will go & make fun of me behind my back with other people within there life.. I am thankful that I have people like this as apart of my life.. Because I honestly do believe that there are few people in this world.. You are able to show your true self to! . . In conclusion though.. I have honestly believed & still to this very day do believe that.. If one is going to put there trust in another 100 %.. That it should be themselves they should trust to this degree. Because in the end sometimes your the only one who won't let yourself down! . . I do trust others though but I trust very few these days. I am very cautious as I think this is the smartest way to be. I do know that even though I trust myself most of all. I do trust the people I had listed because they would have my back without a shadow of doubt at the end of the day! . . Thanks for allowing me to share! xx
@SimplyJo (1694)
• India
1 Feb 07
Umm.. i have to agree with such a strong thought - right on track, even !
@emeraldisle (13158)
• United States
27 Jan 07
For me it would be my sister. We've lived together for a while now and her I'd trust. The rest of the family, eh maybe. The jury is still out on that one. Yes I do trust the animals in some ways. I can tell them anything and know they won't blab it to the world.
@SimplyJo (1694)
• India
27 Jan 07
oh yes i agree animals can be blindly trusted.
@rosie_123 (6118)
19 Feb 07
When my Mum was still alive, I would have said her, without a doubt. She always believed in me, and never let me down. Since her passing, would have to be my partner, who has put up with me for nearly 20 years....... and my cats of course. I tell my old Sasha everything, and he always purrs, and gives me a cuddle, whether he understands or not!
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
19 Feb 07
I am very Lucky as I totally trust my Children, my loving Man and my good Friends. They are the world to me and I know that I can trust them fully hearted.
• Oman
19 Feb 07
Id have to say my family as well as my boyfriend and my parents have always put their trust in me. Ive tried never to let them down and ive always owned up to my mistakes.
@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
19 Feb 07
there are only two ppl in my life that I trust 100% and thats my kids....I trust my husband and some of my very closest friends but not completely..nto because they would ever do anything to hurt me or whatever but because I was condtioned a long time ago to not trust and its been pretty much my internal (part of) safety mechanism ever since I can remember..
@apsara60 (6613)
• Israel
19 Feb 07
I trust my husband the most. I think he knows me better than I know myself. of course my children too are mine, but then they are children.I know my husband will stand beside me whenever I will need him. I have been nasty, I have been stubborn, I have been chidish, I have caused many losses to him, but still I know his love for me and his care for me does not change. He is my only strength. I always pray to God for his long life. Without him I will loose my identity. I love him. I trust him. It was a nice discussion
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
28 Jan 07
I only trust my own family. I know these are the people who have always been there for me & will always be there for me whenever I need them.
@Idlewild (6105)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Yes, I'd also say my family members. We've always gotten along well and been trustworthy and very true to their word. Because they are family, I know I can trust them to do and say what's in my best interest.