Loss of family? different for every person?

United States
January 23, 2007 1:28pm CST
Those who have lost loved ones often find themselves lost looking for anyway out of the new stressing situation. what is the difference between shy and outgoing people that find themselves in that situation?
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@JessieMae (345)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I think that it's hard for anyone to have a loss in their family. I know how hard it was to lose my friend the day before our graduation, and she wasn't in my family, but we were pretty close friends. I hold a lot of things in..But when I lose someone close to me, I can't hold that stuff in. I let it all go ..
• United States
24 Jan 07
thats a good point, we often find that the people in our families also consist of not only people that are of are blood but people that we have bonded with. that shows alittle more depth into family, and what im looking for. see we love anyone friends, family, or a pet and when you lose that particular person/pet you have ways of handling it you let others see it, others tend to hide it untill its built up inside and let it all out at once. This could cause stress on the body and for some depression and can (in some cases) make them wish to end there lives.
@egc65791 (82)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Well I consider myself an outgoing person. In that type of situation I tend to keep everything botteled up inside me. So it is kinda reverse to what you would think an outgoing person would do.
• United States
23 Jan 07
well this is true, the outcome between the two is different per person. what im aiming for is the fact that the changes are much different depending on different situations. but note how you and others are affected and youll see an astounding likeness in how others handle things.