how to handle the situation.........help me plzzzzzzzzzz?????????

India
January 24, 2007 12:31am CST
i am very friendly with my cousin sister she is in class 9th. shge tells me everything and shares every secret.yesterday she told me that she is in love with his classmate.she told they kissed eachg other.i got shocked she is in 9th only and talking about these things. i dont know what to tell her. should i tell these trhings to her parents? if i will not tell these things to her parent if something wrong happens.they will blame me for knowing and not telling.what to do plz help me????????
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@uzaird (38)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Dont tell to her parents Tell ur sis that k stay away from that guy and if possible talk to that guy or his family about this thing....First keep ur cousin away from him..ur sister maybe in love but that guy is using her as his MISTRESS. sorry for that word but i have to use it, May Allah helps u on this..Ameen
• India
24 Jan 07
thanks for ur comment uzair. insha alllah this problem will be solved...
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@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
well it is the big matter that you have to tell their parents that they love each other and after that they all sit to do solve this problem. this is not a big problem that cannot be slove but it can easily solve by discusions between the girl parents and a boy parents.
• India
24 Jan 07
we r indians yaar. understand the situation
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• United States
24 Jan 07
if they just kissed then you should keep her secret. a friend that cant keep a secret doesnt usually stay a friend very long. however..you say "if something wrong happens." does that mean that you think she is in danger of some kind?IF you honestly feel she is in DANGER then perhaps you should talk to her parents or a school counseler might be good. if you decide to tell her secret then make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. keeping your friends secret is a good thing...but telling that secret to keep her from getting hurt(physical damage) is the RIGHT thing. telling her secret will have repurcussions..be prepared and expect them. but if they save her from getting raped or something...the repurcussions are worth it.
• India
24 Jan 07
thanks for your comment. i will think on this.
• India
27 Jan 07
Dont tell this thing to her parents. This will be cheating with her.As she trusts you. But you can make her understand that its not her age for all these things. its up to you how you convince her. But if she doesnt understand then you can tell her mother coz it can have many bad concequences.
@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
well it is the big matter that you have to tell their parents that they love each other and after that they all sit to do solve this problem. this is not a big problem that cannot be slove but it can easily solve by discusions between the girl parents and a boy parents.
@varun121 (104)
• India
24 Jan 07
Please Dont be Harsh with your sister, But try to tell her that ,its not way to love its only a infactuation.Tell her the future problems.And try to put restrictions to talk with that guy .This is the important stage in every girl's life.For lot of girls life shattered at this age only .So,make some efforts to realise this to your sister ...post your response