Are you fine wid your partener being frends wid her ex?
January 24, 2007 1:04am CST
Hey guys i got a problem so pls help me... mah gf still talks to her ex an she does not find anything wrong in dat but i donno for wat reason i m not fine wid dat i jus cant tolerate her talkin to dat guy or even be friends wid her. dis thing has created a lot of disputes between me and her.. pls temme wat shud i do.. shud i allow her to b frends wid him or not.. thanx in advance
24 Jan 07
if she is still attracted to him (her ex b/f). The best solution is you give her a tough competition. See another girl or just try to jealous her, you know what i mean. Just do these type of things. If she really loves you then she definately avoid him, just to save the relationship. Otherwise, If that's not the case just forget her. Move on with life and avoid her. But first try this, or just follow the laws of attraction, you needed more classes on this. Best of Luck, bye nd have a nice time.
24 Jan 07
OBVIOUSLY YOU SHOULD!!! Give freedom to your GF of which friends to choose as long as she knows her limit. Whats the matter. its just friend???!!! If you cannot actually allow that then you are being too possesive and your girlfriend will feel uncomfartable with you in the long run if that is the case and eventually she will be fed up with you and lose feeling with you. She will feel being left out by her friends and the world is not just for you two. She has her own life as well as you do.
27 Jan 07
i really dont understand why u have problem.. with ur girl havin friendship with with her ex.. come on its her life let her have tht much right on herself to choose who is right for her and who is not.. if she wants to be friend with her ex.. then i find its preety quite fine with me.. cause they both have moved on with there life and ... frankly speakin jus wait for few day ur girl will forget him cause no two ex can be friends for more then few days cause they will not understand each other... and if they did understood each other feelin then they would have never broke off... simple...