I need some cheering up

United States
January 24, 2007 10:12am CST
I am in need of some cheering up..I am feeling totally stressed and down....i am stressed about my job....i feel like shedding a few tears to let the stress out...please give a sister a few words of encouragement....
3 responses
@not4me (1713)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Do you have a blog or a myspace account? Sometimes it feels good to vent by writing. I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. I don't really know what to say but I do know that bad relationships are like poison. Even at a young age stress can effect your heart - it's a woman thing. It effects men differently. If you don't feel happy and balanced I would say get out of that situation if you can afford it. You'll probably be much happier with out the extra weight and then maybe you can use your extra time to look for work that you enjoy. I'm kinda down right now too because my husband is leaving for Iraq in less than a week and just today one of our main hot water pipes broke in our new house that we just spent $8000 renovating. In fact we just reserved a hotel room for the weekend so we can all take showers! lol. I know this is a temporary problem compared to yours because our insurance will be hooking us up and my husband will be coming back and all but I know what it's like to be stressed out for a long period of time over things that are seemingly out of control. If you ever want to talk, PM me and I'll give you my E-mail address. :) I hope you are feeling better today!
• United States
27 Jan 07
yes i have a myspace.....and my email is smiley20903@yahoo.com...don't get me wrong although my job can be stressful at time...I love what I do...I get the chance to help people...I am sorry to hear your husband is leaving for Iraq...I have a co worker who's husband just came back and will have to go back again....sometimes I feel like I have to carry the weight of the world on my shoulders...but i was feeling better that evening...I went to the gym worked out and sat in the sauna and whirlpool....thaks for the cheer up......feel free to pm or email me friend......
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Go ahead and cry. You'll find out that crying renews you in some ways. I used to cry, deep in the night, when everyone else if fast asleep. I totally pour my heart out and after that I feel my strength and bravery come creeping in. If your job tires you down, take a breather go have a weeklong vacation. The place maybe just a few kilometers from home or it may be just home. No need to spend much for the vacation. Do this while your job hasn't burn you out yet. Once burn out has taken hold of you, you'll find that you hate your job so much you couldn't take it anymore.
• United States
24 Jan 07
i can't afford to take off......but that would be nice...i am just so burned out from life..i am 28 and have never been out of the city on my own...i don't travel much..i just work....or maybe i am just in a mood today...i don't know....
@shana123 (2096)
• India
24 Jan 07
you have such sweet name smiley!!! many would looking at your name and have a smiling face...,is this smiley undergoing stress? what happened to you actually?,you dint mention the reason for your stress here...!! if you dont feel like writting down your problem its ok,, but if you speak out ,you will feel your burden has become light!!! anyways ill PRAY TO GOD that you have sweet smile forever and your stress fly away like cotton... GOD BLESS YOU SMILEY:-)
• United States
24 Jan 07
i am stressing because of a few things...i have a loan that i am working on that i can't seem to place...i have a processor that although she means well isn't really helping to get a loan threw.....i am just burned out.......i have a relationship that i can't seem to make my mind up of wether to leave or stay...and i put everyone first before myself...i have never been on a real vacation...when i am not working at work...i am working at home...i just need a break...and i don't know how to get one.....