I'm such a baby!!

Big Baby - Forever and always I will love him
@shooie (4989)
United States
January 24, 2007 4:48pm CST
My husband works nights and has just about since we've been married. Sometimes I'll stay up all night so I can sleep in with him. The reason I say I'm a baby is sometimes when he goes off to work I tear up. I miss him so much when he isn't here. But to be honest I hope that filling never goes away. Do you miss your spouse when he or she is away even for the day. I mean if he has guys night out or they go fishing I don't get all teary because I know we all need alone time. is hard to explain. lol anyone else out there like this or am I just a weirdo.
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@caramello (4382)
• Australia
24 Jan 07
No shooie you are not a weirdo you are someone who obviously cares about your other half very much and these days it is nice to hear. I am on my second marriage and we are coming up to 8 years this year! My hubby does the odd night shift and I am awake every hour on the hour lol and even out a pillow down the side to try and trick myself that he is there. Then as soon as he walks in the door I go to sleep and then sleep half the day away. What you are feeling is quite normal as love can do this to you! lol
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@shooie (4989)
• United States
25 Jan 07
giggles I try the pillow thing...lol to funny am glad am not alone
@caramello (4382)
• Australia
29 Jan 07
Well shooie I must have jinxed myself with the response to your discussion as I said my hubby had done a couple of night shifts since we have been together and what happens? He got called in on Saturday night for a 12 hour shift 7pm-7am. It was such a looooooong night and I hardly got any sleep! lol
@shooie (4989)
• United States
29 Jan 07
giggles...bummer. My husband is off this week until friday weeeeeeeeeeee
• United States
29 Jan 07
No there is nothing weird about you. I have often felt that way when my mate would leave for work in the mornings. I would sit at home and wish he could be there with me, it was hard because our only time together was sleep time for a few hours at night. He worked days and I worked nights. So you are not alone, that is what happens when you love some one so much and you want to be around them as much as possible, although you understand they have to do what they have to do.
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@shooie (4989)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Sometimes I find myself staying up so I can sleep with him. But every other week is his short week so I guess I can't complain.
@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I do the same, my husband just spent 4 days in the hospital with pneumonia and I was so upset! It just isn't the same around here when he is not here with me.
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@shooie (4989)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Oh am sorry to hear that. I hope he is doing a lot better now. Hope you spoil him rotten for few days.
@Sailor (1161)
• United States
28 Jan 07
It is good to miss your spouse that much. I think my GF misses me a lot when I'm gone but I would be cautious of asking if she missed me that much.
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@shooie (4989)
• United States
28 Jan 07
giggles am sure she does. who couldn't you seem to be a nice and fun guy
@missyd79 (3441)
• United States
25 Jan 07
you are not weird, my boyfriend will constantly text me all day while we are both at work telling me that he misses me, and some mornings when he gets up to go to bed and gives me a kiss goodbye i will hold on to him because i don't want him to go. so no u are not weird.
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@shooie (4989)
• United States
25 Jan 07
awwww I remember all the e-mails. I kept some and put them in a scrapbook thanks for responding. After tonight he's off for a week yipeee
@cashnono (1135)
• Hong Kong
29 Jan 07
Oh, lady, oh no, baby, you should understand you hbd, or you can ask him to change a job.
@shooie (4989)
• United States
29 Jan 07
It's not every night he's gone. He loves his job and it pays well. Thanks for responding
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I totally understand you and I'm not even married. I jsut feel the same about my beau. But it's just normal for us girls to be weird like that. It's our nature. May I suggest that you read, Men are from Manrs, Women are from Venus during your alone times. You'll understand our being as well as the being of your husband...or men in general.
@shooie (4989)
• United States
15 Feb 07
thanks
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I totally understand you and I'm not even married. I jsut feel the same about my beau. But it's just normal for us girls to be weird like that. It's our nature. May I suggest that you read, Men are from Manrs, Women are from Venus during your alone times. You'll understand our being as well as the being of your husband...or men in general.
@shooie (4989)
• United States
15 Feb 07
thanks
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I totally understand you and I'm not even married. I jsut feel the same about my beau. But it's just normal for us girls to be weird like that. It's our nature. May I suggest that you read, Men are from Manrs, Women are from Venus during your alone times. You'll understand our being as well as the being of your husband...or men in general.
@shooie (4989)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Have heard about that for a few years now I guess I should look it up and read it. Thanks for responding
• United States
27 Jan 07
I'm no longer married but I can relate to missing someone so much when they leave you that you cannot wait to see them again. That's called love... enjoy it! lol
@shooie (4989)
• United States
27 Jan 07
smiles thanks I hope it last forever. I know 8 years isn't a long time but am shooting forever. thanks
• Israel
26 Jan 07
Nope, you definitely aren't weird, just very lucky to have found someone to love that much. Most people are like that when they are newly married, but then it wears off after a little while. I hate it when my husband leaves, and he hates to leave so much that he works from home:)
@shooie (4989)
• United States
26 Jan 07
smiles. I think you and i found out soulmates. What do you think? I never want the feeling to go away.
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
25 Jan 07
You are really a sweet baby, but and since you are recently married, this will happen, gradually you will grow up and will do miss your spouse but will not be teary.
@shooie (4989)
• United States
25 Jan 07
hmmmm grow up? I hope I never grow out of missing him. Thanks for your response. I've been married 8 years and I hope I feel the same way 10 years down the road.