What do you feel when your friends at mylot do not respond to your discussions?

@howiedy (236)
Philippines
January 24, 2007 8:02pm CST
It is just saddening to know that some are not paying attention to the topics I posted. I cannot blame them, maybe they are also busy with posting their own topics and replying to others. I just hope others will shed enought time to reply and rate them. What about you? Do you feel offended in some ways?
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@villageanne (8579)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I find that most of my friends do not comment. I do try to comment on all of my friends discussions but sometimes I just get too overwelmed with all the discussions being started. No need to fell offended. Just go find some more friends who will commment. :)
@howiedy (236)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Good point ms. anne. Hope you can reply more to my topics. Thanks for your time.
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
25 Jan 07
I respond to my friends disussion 1 hour a day, that means around 40 to 50 responses. I wait for one week, if they do not respond to my discussions, I just remove their names from the list. So far I have removed 400 such totally useless persons who are unresponsive to anything and everything.
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@howiedy (236)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Let me try your suggestion. Thanks.
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@ralevi (1887)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Every body here are busy to make money believe me I don't know a person who watch who made the topic the people just answer it.
@xiongqh (793)
• Hong Kong
25 Jan 07
Yes, sometimes I feel bad about it, I am annoy becasue I keep to reply the other's post, but a few people to reply my post. I wish my friend can help each other, if someone never replsy the other's post, I will delete them from friend list, because they cannot help me to make money, we come here for money and friend, they lose the point. So keep post and reply is a good way to keep relation with other.
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@howiedy (236)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
I agree. Friendship should be based on mutualism.
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• United States
25 Jan 07
I really don't let it bother me. I don't expect my friends to reply to each and every discussion I have. I don't want them to feel obligated to reply either. Perhaps they don't have anything to add to the topic, or don't know what to respond with. That's okay. I do try and respond to my friends discussion, but I am not going to reply just to reply. I have to have something to say that is relevant to the topic. Some people have 100+ friends, it would be difficult to respond to all those people in one day. Try not to let it bother you or make you sad. Just enjoy having friends.
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@howiedy (236)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Thank you. But I will be cautious next time in adding friends. You can add me if you want.
• United States
16 Jul 07
I'm new and just now trying to get the word out. I hope that some of the discussions I generated catch people's interests. So far most of them haven't. I think I be a little offended if my friends couldn't take the time to look at what I wrote about.