Why is Love so painful?

@raj0019 (2623)
Argentina
January 25, 2007 8:02am CST
Even though everyone says that being in love is a great feeling, but once you fall in love, you start to realize that its not so easy actually. You will have to face many kind of problems, many awkward situations too. Love brings lots of happiness in your life, but it brings much more pain than before too. Pain of breaking dreams, pain of not getting what we expect, pain of distance especially, same is happening with me at the moment. I want to know why is love full of these situations? Can't it be a wonderful story always!
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6 responses
• Singapore
27 Jan 07
LOL i think we watched too much love movies that we tend to think that being in love should be exactly that...all well ends well..but it may not be like that in real life. the more you love the person, the more hurtful it is when he/she does something wrong. but then, nothing's perfect..and it came in a package, with it's pros and cons. when you really love that person, you will see him/her through all her flaws and love them for it :0)
@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
30 Jan 07
You are very much right, when we love some one too much, then we start to ignore all the flaws in that person. I believe that no one is flawless in this world, and its a part of relationships.
• China
27 Jan 07
I have the same feel with you now.love brings happiness and pain,so we will never forget it.I think I miss him forvere.
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@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
27 Jan 07
I have not lost my love and don't want that to happen either, i scare to lose the one whom i love so much.
@huanghaozi (1472)
• Egypt
2 Feb 07
Thinking about you and hoping you will return to me, hoping you love me just as I love you. Praying that you are also sitting by your window looking at the moon thinking of me as I think of you.You’re my baby boy and I promise I will never let you go you may forget about me but I will never forget you, ust knowing that your close brings comfort to my soul, it makes me one it makes me whole. Your eyes, your smile but best of all your voice it heals me when I’m sick just to hear your voice makes me feel love in my heart and a feeling that I have never known deep within my soul, please don’t forget me when I am gone because I won’t forget you your my one and only you’re my boo... Written by broken_2711 This Poem has been answer you why is love so painful .
• United States
25 Jan 07
I dont think that it can be wonderful always. That is just a fairytale. All relationships have its ups and downs. I love my husband with all of my hearts and I couldnt imagine not being with him. We have good days and bad days, fights, and everything.. but our love is so strong that we get over all of that stuff. We arent doing bad financially, but I wish it were better, I am a stay at home mom and that gets rough. However when I think about it I wouldnt want it any other way. As long as you truely love the person and they truely love you back you can overcome anything.
@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
26 Jan 07
yes its true, i would never want to hurt the person i love so much. Trust is something that plays a big role in these relationships, it keeps everything together.
• Nigeria
26 Jan 07
Love as i know is like when one takes in,that is been pregnant,goes thru the nine months and now goes into labour and finally gives birth.but does the responsibility stop there?no! it goes on,even after the child leaves home and you still get to dot on a 40year old child. So love is like that,you want someone to love,share your life with,but it comes with its bittersweet water.No one is perfect.we all have short coming,even llife does not treat you both well.You know why?Because you only live one day at a time! So all you have to do,is to keep living in one day at a time and believe in God for a better tomorrow. Live in the sweet moments and when the hard part comes,allow the memory of the sweet ones and God see you through it all.
@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
27 Jan 07
You have defined love so perfectly! Only experience can make you answer like that, Thank you :)
@kardel (199)
• Romania
1 Feb 07
Love it`s like you choose to be. it will be great if you know how to love a girl, so much , that even if she don`t like you, to make her to love you. love it`s painful if you`ll be indiferent.
@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
2 Feb 07
Your point is very valid